There was a guy in my class last semester who sat across from me. We made a class circle and he always made eye contact while he’s talking. I’ve seen him do it to other people but he did it to me the most.
He’s opinionated and outspoken but I just think he’s passionate. He’s smart.
Anyways one class I came in and was on my phone. He was debating something funny with another classmate lol.
I kept looking up at my phone and smiling at him and looking down.
He did the same and kept smiling and looking at me then back at the classmate who he was talking to. I was making it rlly obvious and smiling at him and looking back at my phone and I kept repeating. But he was reciprocating. I finally stopped and gazed down at my phone. When I looked back up at him he was staring and sleepily smiling at me and kinda yawned and said something then put his head on his desk but I didn’t catch what he said lol.
The whole transaction was interesting.
He had a girlfriend but whenever he mentioned her it was something negative about her family. I don’t think they’re still together. He’s called me out in class once and asked if me specifically was gonna say something to the discussion because I contribute a lot but maybe he likes hearing it. I’m not the only one to contribute by the way. Also this semester he waved to me when I saw him the hall lol on the first day.
So fast forward a few weeks I’ve kinda moved on and I joined an organization at my school and He’s in it lol. We have a groupchat and I noticed his name when I joined. He’s very outspoken in the group chat and I probably will see him again because we’re in the same club. I saw that he sent a virtual wave to a few different girls when they joined the chat ( it’s friendly and everyone does it but I don't know lol ) I found out he joined a class about black girls in literature which I thought was nice because I’m a black girl lol. I saw him today and smiled and he gave me a quick wave. Could he have interest in me?
He’s opinionated and outspoken but I just think he’s passionate. He’s smart.
Anyways one class I came in and was on my phone. He was debating something funny with another classmate lol.
I kept looking up at my phone and smiling at him and looking down.
He did the same and kept smiling and looking at me then back at the classmate who he was talking to. I was making it rlly obvious and smiling at him and looking back at my phone and I kept repeating. But he was reciprocating. I finally stopped and gazed down at my phone. When I looked back up at him he was staring and sleepily smiling at me and kinda yawned and said something then put his head on his desk but I didn’t catch what he said lol.
The whole transaction was interesting.
He had a girlfriend but whenever he mentioned her it was something negative about her family. I don’t think they’re still together. He’s called me out in class once and asked if me specifically was gonna say something to the discussion because I contribute a lot but maybe he likes hearing it. I’m not the only one to contribute by the way. Also this semester he waved to me when I saw him the hall lol on the first day.
So fast forward a few weeks I’ve kinda moved on and I joined an organization at my school and He’s in it lol. We have a groupchat and I noticed his name when I joined. He’s very outspoken in the group chat and I probably will see him again because we’re in the same club. I saw that he sent a virtual wave to a few different girls when they joined the chat ( it’s friendly and everyone does it but I don't know lol ) I found out he joined a class about black girls in literature which I thought was nice because I’m a black girl lol. I saw him today and smiled and he gave me a quick wave. Could he have interest in me?
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Based on the information you provided, i am not sure to say for sure whether he's interested in you romantically or just sees you as a friend. However, there are a few signs that he may be interested:
1. Eye contact: As you mentioned, he made a lot of eye contact with you during class discussions, which can be a sign of interest.
2. Reciprocated flirting: During that one class, you mentioned that you were flirting with him by looking at your phone and smiling at him, and he was reciprocating by smiling back and making eye contact.
3. Interest in what you have to say: He's called you out specifically in class and asked if you were going to contribute to the discussion, which could be a sign that he values your opinion and finds you interesting.
However, there are also some factors that suggest he may just see you as a friend:
1. He had a girlfriend at the time: Even though he spoke negatively about his girlfriend's family, the fact that he was in a relationship may suggest that he wasn't looking for anything more than friendship.
2. He sent virtual waves to multiple girls: While it's possible that he's interested in all of them, it could also just be a friendly gesture.
Overall, it's difficult to say for sure what his intentions are without more information. If you're interested in him, it may be worth trying to spend more time with him and seeing if there are any other signs of romantic interest. However, it's also important to respect his boundaries and not push for anything he's not comfortable with.