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Does he see me as just a friend?

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As I (25 F) spend more time with my guy friend (20 M), I realized my feelings are growing stronger. He has opened up to me yesterday when we hung out an office he had and around campus for 4 hrs just spending time together and talking.


~I noticed he opened up about what he’s attracted to. He told me that he has this friend that talks to him about girls and pointed out to him this girl he found attractive, and made a remark like “It’s hard to have conversation with her so I just keep things light and fun.”

~He also said he stopped caring about appearances and that what’s “up here” (intelligence) matters to him more

~I brought up that guys his age would express interest, and he said “sounds like you’re dealing with lonely people that would go for anything with a pulse”

~he told me about how he brought a female friend to an event and people assumed they were dating. They text a lot but he said they’re just friends.

~He told me he doesn’t like it when there’s rumors of him being into or dating the female friend he brought to an event

~Afterwards, he told me he was glad we didn’t do everything we were supposed to do (he was supposed to show me an office but we got distracted and never went) because he likes talking to me.

~However, I asked him to hang outside of campus and he gave me a maybe. But, before I left he said he’s willing to show me the office I wanted to go to over the summer and pick a day.


(Note this is the same guy that has been getting touchy with me, like pulled me by the waist months ago, let his touch linger, etc, like I mentioned in my previous post). He never opened up like this to me before. Does he see me as just a friend?

Does he see me as just a friend?
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