We were talking about playfully about bumbing each other at our school event but he said that it would be even ”better”if we grab a coffee sometime?

[Anonymous]

why would it be better?

[spartan55]

Why is it that girls can never just take the win? Hmmmm real date vs dating app shit show... that's a tough one
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[Asker]

What’s a win in this situation?

[spartan55]

That he wants to go on an actual date instead of bumbling each other.

[Asker]

But if he doesn’t just want to bumb into me why did he ask if I’m going to this event

[spartan55]

Huh?

[Asker]

He asked me at first if I’m going to this event. I felt like he wanted to bumb into me there

[Asker]

I then said that there’s a lot of people and bumbing into each other there could be hard.

[spartan55]

So he revised the plan to make sure you would have time together.

[Wise4myage]

Because its a date and you will both get the chance to chat one on one.

[Asker]

He asked me at first if I’m going to this event. I felt like he wanted to bumb into me there.
I then said that there’s a lot of people and bumbing into each other there could be hard.

[JustinTheGreat]

He’s trying to ask you out on a date

[Asker]

Really, do you think he’s interested?

[JustinTheGreat]

Yeah it sounds like it. I mean it’s totally possible he just wants to grab coffee as a friendly gesture but I think it sounds a little flirty

[Asker]

What made it sound flirty?

[Danny_dan92]

Flirting and he asked you out

[Asker]

What part was flirting?

[Danny_dan92]

He’s complimenting you indirectly

[Asker]

In what way lol?

[Danny_dan92]

Read between the lines hun. He said “my day would be better if we grabbed coffee” he’s saying spending time with you would make his day better

[Asker]

He didn’t say ”my day” though. He just said ”it would be even better”

[Danny_dan92]

What’s the difference?

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you both teach at the same school?

[Asker]

Yes, I’m quote new there. We don’t really go there. He first asked if I’m going to this event. I said playfully” No I’m not going but I guess you wanted to see me there” . He said I’m not going to deny. It would be even better if we grab a coffee.

[Asker]

We don’t really know each other*

[BarryLiverstone]

So then let him know when you want to meet for coffee and you can get to know more about him

[Asker]

Already said yes. Do you think he’s interested and he asked me out to date?

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m not sure that matters. Yes he is interested in getting to know more about you but whether it’s a date or he asked you out as someone new at work you can still show up and enjoy the time. Would it make a difference to know his intent?

[Asker]

Yes because I was hoping that it’s s date

[BarryLiverstone]

Then that means you are attracted to him. My advice is to believe it’s a date and if he’s not got any romantic interest you will find out. But go for it!

[brooke233]

He likes uou or just wants you in bed.

[Asker]

What shows that he likes me?

[brooke233]

He asked you out for a coffee

[Asker]

You don’t think he just wants to be friends?

[brooke233]

He used the word "playfull"

[Asker]

No he didn’t

[brooke233]

Sorry you* used