Is this normal/common? What do y'all think?

[Punk-y]

Is it normal that guys don't approach me at all? Or is that more common than I think? I'm not even sure if guys even stare at me even lol, sometimes I think a guy's looking at me but he might be looking to any girl around me. Because my friends get approached by guys or they stare at them, but no one does that to me lol, it was always like that, I always thought it's because I'm not pretty, but maybe is normal for every woman? Or is it really because most guys don't find me attractive or something? I want to know what y'all think, especially from a guy's pov hah

[RealMarek]

This is the second time I’ve seen this question in as many days. There are many reasons why a guy might not approach. He might feel the girl is out of his league and not want to get rejected. Cold approaching women got a bit risky after “me-too,” which held that an unwanted advance should be punished. Also, I’ve met some women who tell men they’re creepy for approaching them in public because that’s what dating apps are for. And some guys are just shy and won’t approach a woman they don’t know.

[AdithyaR]

Based on your profile pic, you have a knockout gorgeous goth vibe going on.
There could be two things:
Guys tend to analyse and overthink a lot about whether a girl looks like she's open to be approached or not. Maybe they get a vibe that you don't want to be disturbed.
Guys tend to be more anxious about approaching a really pretty girl, that might be what's happening. Its not your fault, and don't worry, you'll have a guy approach you in time.

[Punk-y]

Aw, thank you so much <3
I'll trust what you're saying hah, I like the idea of guys not approaching me because they think I'm too pretty lol

[Jazzy54]

Same situation. I’ve been told that you have to put yourself out there more. If you’re not already, become active in your community. Start volunteering or something similar. That’s a great way to meet people. Also, think about this: would you approach you? In other words, are you friendly and open?

[Punk-y]

I wouldn't approach me even if I looked very friendly and open, hah. But I get what you're saying; I should probably try to put myself out there!

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You are pretty

*When I'm single*, I approach maybe 5% of pretty girls I see.
It has to be the right place, right time, right mood, and I prefer to at least know who she is or a little about her before I walk up on her.
It doesn't mean I don't find the rest of them attractive, but I have more going on in my life than hitting on pretty girls all day. They're a dime a dozen.

Hope that helps

[Punk-y]

Thank you! <3
And yeah, it helps, hah

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That's good Punk

[TallAnon]

Are you often in a place where it's ok to approach you? Guys often hear you shouldn't talk to girls: At night, at the gym, on the street, at work.. The list goes on.
If that's you on the profile picture, guys are most definitely looking for a chance to approach you 😁

[Punk-y]

I guess I'm usually in places where it's not ok to approach, hah
And yes, it's me, thank you <3

[TallAnon]

If you lived nearby, I would take the chance to flirt with you 😁 Europe? Haha

[Punk-y]

Oh hah, I'm from Argentina

[TallAnon]

That makes it a bit hard to ask you out, haha, but I can guarantee people want to 😁

[Punk-y]

Okay, I'll trust ya

[MrCommodore]

Is the profile picture you? If so, you're definitely pretty enough to have guys check you out. You just might not have open body language or friendly look and they think you don't want to be approached.

[Punk-y]

Yes, it's me! And thank you <3
Oh, I didn't though about that, maybe I don't look too friendly, lol

[MrCommodore]

I seen you comment you're from Argentina, I would have took you to be Irish or European.

[Punk-y]

Most people in Argentina have European descent! (Me being one of them) lol

[MrCommodore]

Oh, I didn't realise that, good to know.

[MementoMori777]

I've actually noticed from being on this site that a lot of women that are attractive have the same problem, you aren't the first nor the last to ask this question, I guess movies just make it look like it happens everyday.

[Punk-y]

Ohh I've been brainwashed by Hollywood once again, hah

[MementoMori777]

Lol, I recommend you don't let movies change your perspective in reality 😆

[Punk-y]

It's a bit difficult but I'll try, hah

[MementoMori777]

As long as there's effort 😂

[MountAverage]

That is very common. Guys tend to not approach the women they find the most attractice. Either because they assume they have no chance with her anyway, or because that woman gives off unapproachable vibes (which A LOT of attractive women do).

[Punk-y]

I didn't think about that hah, but fair enough!

[pethouse]

I don't know why you don’t have guys approaching you, if your profile picture is actually you then you should have no problem having guys approach you!

[Punk-y]

It's me in the profile picture hah, and thank you!

[pethouse]

Is it possible that you might naturally look angry or upset when your in public?

[Punk-y]

Uhh, pretty I don't hah, maybe I look a bit serious tho

[pethouse]

Or they might think your already taken

[Punk-y]

Maybe but I don't think it's most cases hah

[pethouse]

Well maybe god/the universe has someone special waiting for you

[pethouse]

Best of luck to you bud

[Punk-y]

Thanks hah, you too

[Anonymous]

Fuck no, I would approach you anytime and make you my wife :D

[Punk-y]

Lol, ty

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah you are not only beautiful, you are perfect and those eyes... be my morticia :D

[Punk-y]

Haha, thank you!

[Degenerate]

You're pretty damn attractive in my opinion

[Punk-y]

Thank you! <3

[Degenerate]

I've never approached a woman in my life, and I definitely would have even more trouble approaching an attractive woman. I'm assuming this is probably the major factor in your scenario.

[Punk-y]

Understood. And I'll trust you then, hah