WHY DO GUYS PLAY MIND GAMES “IF” THEY LIKE YOU?

[FemaleHustlaa]

I’ve been on and off with this guy since 2017 and he’s never verbally stated his feelings for me although his actions showed he was interested. Now that we’re a bit older and trying to rekindle, he’s asked “what do you think of me” and “what do you want from me” and said “I don’t get a chance” or “what do you expect”. even after explaining my feelings for him and our expected future he still will not confirm he feels the same or wants similar… and also the interactions in person compared to phone or text is confusing, it feels like I’m talking to a completely different person. Lucky if I even get a message back. He’ll Ghost through text, no response at all. Awkward silence on the phone, we have nothing to say. But best friends and lovers when in person 🤔 The “limbo” and guessing games and mind games for so many years made me break things off with him just now…. MEN PLS EXPLAIN. I’m 27, he’s 29. Both Leo’s.

[CarolinaJones]

Sounds like they don't know what they want at the moment or keeping their options open. If they clearly don't say anything after all these years, time to move on.

[spartan55]

Leo's? Tf?
So, after six years you are still letting this dude jerk you around. Can't really blame him at this point because you allow it.

[mommymommy]

Same reasons a girl might. You just never know

[Anonymous]

guys don't play games. He is getting what he wants.

[In_Trance]

They really don't