How do you know he has feelings for you but is in denial or scared about it?

[Victoria7869]

Like this guy I’ve been talking to now wants to be friends with benefits says he doesn’t know what he wants atm or in life which okay and he says he cares for me as a person and he also gets really jealous when I talk to other guys or vice versa and he doesn’t want me having sex with anyone but him and he says he trusts me until I fuck it up he also shows a lot of affection but says we’re just gonna have fun and not get attached do u believe that we’ll consistently have sex etc and not end up attached or catching feelings? I don't know lmk please and I don't know what does he want why’s he so confusing I can tell he likes me but he never admits it

[GreekLorrd]

It's hard to say for sure what someone else is feeling or thinking, but based on the information you've provided, it seems like this guy may have some conflicting feelings about his relationship with you. It's possible that he has feelings for you but is in denial or scared about it, which could be why he's hesitant to commit to a more serious relationship.

The fact that he wants to be friends with benefits and is afraid of getting attached suggests that he may have some emotional barriers or fears that are preventing him from fully opening up to you. His jealousy and possessiveness could also be signs that he has feelings for you but is struggling to come to terms with them.

Ultimately, whether or not you'll be able to consistently have sex without getting attached will depend on both of your emotional boundaries and expectations. It's important to have an open and honest conversation about your feelings and expectations, and to be willing to communicate and adjust as needed. If you're not comfortable with the arrangement, it's okay to set boundaries or walk away.

[Victoria7869]

It’s just he said in the beginning that he was 95% sure he wants to date me but the other 5 he just wanted to get to know me better and then randomly he ghosted me and later added me on snap and apologized to me in person which is all proof he has feelings it’s just I don't know why he said he wants to be with me and then all of a sudden he comes up with this bs that he doesn’t know what he wants like wth even yesterday he was like we’re not together like I get it tf I just don’t know what the hell he wants I said yes to friends with benefits because I just was willing to take anything to get to be near him and we clearly are more than. friends with benefits the way we talk all day everyday when we’re free and the way he cares gets jealous and trusts me and says if I got with any guy even though we’re not together he would never talk to me again if I was to get with any guy that wasn’t him which even confused me more

[GreekLorrd]

It sounds like this guy may be unsure of his own feelings and what he wants in a relationship. He may have initially thought he was ready to date you, but as he got to know you better, he realized he still needed time to figure things out. It's possible that he's scared of commitment or doesn't want to get hurt, which could explain why he's hesitant to take things to the next level.

However, it's important to remember that his actions and words may not always match up, and it's ultimately up to you to decide what you want and what you're willing to accept in a relationship. It's important to communicate your own feelings and needs clearly with him and make sure you both are on the same page. If he continues to send mixed signals or doesn't respect your boundaries, it may be time to reevaluate whether this relationship is right for you.

[Victoria7869]

And do u think we’ll fr get attached to eachother if we’re consistently intimate like this because the way he even is around me is more than just friends with benefits the way he’s so affectionate at times it’s so confusing but I really have feelings for him I don’t wanna just walk away from him or give up on him at all

[Victoria7869]

Thank you so much for your help by the way ur very kind I appreciate it

[GreekLorrd]

It's possible for people to develop emotional attachment when they are consistently intimate with each other, especially if there are feelings involved. However, it's important to remember that being friends with benefits doesn't necessarily guarantee a romantic relationship or emotional commitment. It's important to communicate with your partner and make sure you're both on the same page about your expectations and boundaries. If you have feelings for him and you want more than just a casual arrangement, it's important to have an honest conversation with him and see where he stands.

[Victoria7869]

Thank you so much for your help 💕❤️

[GreekLorrd]

you're welcome! It is an honor for me to help.

[Victoria7869]

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