Why does he appear and des appear in my life but hasn’t had also a girlfriend in years?

[Anonymous]

He says I’m the closest thing he has to a girlfriend. And that he doesn’t have the time that a relationship requires. My question is will it ever change? And will it be with me? I am pretty much in love but also very tired of the same old situation.

[CodeNameTheUnknown]

I’m going through something similar. Honestly, after much contemplating it’s best to just move one no matter how hard or how much it hurts. What’s the point in waiting around when you’re not getting any younger. What if he finds someone else and you wasted your precious time waiting for him to only end up with someone else. That’s not fair to you. If he wanted you to be his he would have made you his because reality is when men want something they go after it moving any obstacle in the way. Reality is he’s not interested and is only using you for the girlfriend Benefits without the girlfriend tile as you mention he has stated “your the closest thing he has to a girlfriend”

[spartan55]

Yeah, keep waiting...😂😂😂

[Asker]

U think he’ll stay single for ever?

[Asker]

He’s 31 🫠

[spartan55]

I didn't get married until I was 32. If he wanted you it would have happened by now.