Why after fight he would ask me to block him instead of doing it himself?

[Deimy]

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to know for sure why someone would ask you to block them instead of doing it themselves, as everyone's motivations and thought processes can be different. However, here are a few possible explanations:

1. He wants to test your commitment to the breakup. By asking you to block him, he may be trying to see if you're really serious about ending things. If you're able to follow through on this request, it could signal to him that you're truly ready to move on.

2. He's struggling with his own feelings. It's possible that he's having a hard time letting go of the relationship and is trying to distance himself by asking you to block him. However, he may not have the willpower to do it himself, which is why he's asking for your help.

3. He's trying to avoid confrontation. By asking you to block him, he may be trying to avoid any further conflict or drama between the two of you. Asking you to block him is a way of ending the communication without having to have a difficult conversation.

Regardless of his motivations, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and do what feels right for you. If you feel like blocking him would be a healthy step for you to take, then go ahead and do so. However, if you're not ready or comfortable with that, it's important to communicate your feelings and boundaries with him.

[Valkyria]

I used to do that in the past, because every time I blocked a partner, a few minutes/hours/days later I'd just unblock him again. If I make him block me, I can try to fall for that mistake I make but the message would not send. It's trying to stop a cycle. At least for as long as you keep him blocked.

[Deimy]

Why would you unblock

[Valkyria]

Because I missed the good times. Was a terrible habit though because they were not very nice people overall.

[Deimy]

He was my casual guy and said he was not looking for a relationship so I don' t understand him

[Valkyria]

Maybe he's catching feelings even though he also wanted it to be with no strings, and doesn't want to be more serious but it's hard for him when he is reminded of you.

[Ms_Facesitter]

So he isn't the bad guy.

[MementoMori777]

A flauge I guess