Why my 18 years old childhood love avoid me like he's irritated but stalk me when I ignore him?

[Ashashbaby]

My childhood crush is now 18 years old, but when I leave their house, he always passes in front of our house so I can notice him, but when I go home to their house and when I approach him, he avoids me, why is that? His parents want me to live there.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for certain why your childhood crush may be avoiding you or acting inconsistently, as people's behavior can be influenced by a variety of factors.

However, it's possible that he may be feeling conflicted or unsure about his feelings towards you, or may be struggling with other personal issues that are affecting his behavior.

Alternatively, he may simply be trying to maintain a certain level of distance or independence from you, or may be feeling uncomfortable with the attention you are giving him.

If you are feeling confused or concerned about his behavior, it may be helpful to communicate openly and honestly with him about your feelings and expectations. However, it's important to respect his boundaries and to prioritize your own well-being and happiness above all else.

Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and consideration in all interactions, and that it's okay to take the time you need to process your feelings and make decisions that are right for you.

[Ashashbaby]

Last night he's was drunk and super nice like were so close, but when I aproach him Like I want to sleep with him again because we did that before.. actually we end our friendship because he's brother find out that we are friends with benefits. But last nigh he's drunk and so mad at me after I knock on he's door that I want to sleep with him. He shout that why dont yoi just go away. I just heard that he has some phone call he's flirting with a girl, and I heard everything through he's door. But after he end up the call.. after 1 minute It was timing that I knock on he's door.

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like there may be a lot of complicated emotions and dynamics at play in your relationship with this person. It's important to remember that it's never okay to pressure someone into sleeping with you or to make unwanted advances, even if you have a history of being friends with benefits in the past.

It's may be possible that your childhood crush was simply not interested in sleeping with you again and was frustrated by your advances. Additionally, his behavior of flirting with someone else on the phone while you were present is disrespectful and may be a sign that he's not interested in pursuing a romantic or sexual relationship with you.

It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to communicate your boundaries clearly with this person. If his behavior is making you uncomfortable or if you feel like you're not getting the respect and consideration you deserve, it may be best to distance yourself from the situation and focus on building healthy relationships with people who treat you well.

[Anonymous]

I don't know thats weird