Why does he appear and disappear from my life?

[Anonymous]

Always when everything is going great he disappears.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure without more information about the situation, but there could be a number of reasons why someone might appear and disappear from your life. It's possible that he may have commitment issues or is not ready for a serious relationship. He could also be dealing with personal issues or emotional baggage that causes him to withdraw at times. It's also possible that he may not see the relationship progressing in the way that he wants, leading him to pull away. Communication is key in any relationship, so it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about his behavior and how it makes you feel.

[Asker]

Honestly best answer ever

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Opinion Owner]

They're running away because they don't deserve you. Don't be sad and wait for Mr. Right. Remember that you are the queen of this fairy tale.

[Anonymous]

Because you’re not who he wants to invest in or give a title, even if you had one in the past. A man who’s really about you won’t do anything to risk losing you, so the fact that he “always” does should be a glaring red flag and eye opener for you. It also speaks to your worth when it comes to his presence in his life, and you aren’t very valuable. Maybe you were at one point but he’s not gonna appreciate a woman he can keep coming back, using and discarding. It shows you don’t see your worth, so why would he? Set boundaries then get as committed to them as he is to his.

[smashleyy]

He knows you will welcome him back with open arms regardless of being wishy washy so he continues to do so.

[In_Trance]

Because you allow him to