Why do men waste women time?

[Akam93]

You can't explain how you feel, what you want, etc. Why is it so damn difficult?

[Anonymous]

I know this is difficult for the female hive mind to comprehend, but MEN are NOT WOMEN. We do not think like you do, feel like you do, act like you do, emote like you do. And that doesn’t make us wrong.

we do not need to tell people every little emotional nonsense we “feel”, we deal with our emotions on our own for the most part.

But when it comes to tell women what we want, most men DO tell women up front what we want. But women only hear what they want to hear.

A guy will tell a girl he only wants sex. She will say “yEaH mE tOo” but in her head she wants him to magically fall in love with her via sex… which never happens. Then they say that men “led them on” or some other nonsense.

most of women’s issues with men are women's inability to listen and accept what we say.

[MrCommodore]

We don't, men just sometimes have different priorities.

[caring__1]

I admit men are less likely to share their feelings (as they're often used against them), though women often share their feelings as "I feel you should..." and that is a turnoff to guys. You say guys don't share what they want, yet I've discovered women don't like when men attempt to get to know them faster than they want to be known. I've gotten responses such as "You think we're already in a relationship?" "What's your rush... we have a lifetime to get to know each other?" I, for one, have no desire to spend 20 years on a path, only to find that path won't lead where I want to go. You can't have it both ways, wanting guys to be an open book, yet not wanting to reveal too much too fast, so you don't miss out on potential opportunities.

This is not about why do men waste women's time, but why do women continue to choose men who are only interested in playing games? Learn to be observant, so you can see the signs early on. Understand it's your choice to stick with someone and expect them to change for you that wastes your time. Don't maintain your same patterns and expect different results. Don't complain you go to bars to meet guys, yet you don't like the fact you always end up with alcoholics.

It's easy to throw blame when things don't go as we wish, but it won't move anyone forward. Focus only on what's within your control (your choices, your words, your actions). No one's requiring you to stay when you don't like what you see. Start seeking compatible partners rather than quality providers. Those who focus on acquiring wealth often see others as playthings. They look at it as " You want to use me... fine, then I'll use you."

[Gent207-2]

I don't know
Why do you date such tools inthe first place?

[Anonymous]

What was the point of this question? Wasting someone’s time is not a behavior exclusive to men.

[AngryCarl2]

If I knew what I wanted I would explain it.