Why do some men infantilise women?

[StormMistress]

Ie talk down to or treat like we’re children? That we must be protected and we don’t know any better etc? Because we’re small and petite?

Don’t get me wrong I’m submissive and don’t mind being treated as weak or naive by my partner. I love when they take the reins. But I’m society it gets abit annoying. Like I’m not treated seriously or I can’t handle an iffy situation so I must be protected.

What are you thoughts lovelies?

[motownplayer2000]

I mean when you have statements like, it’s a man’s job, it’s a man’s world. Men are supposed to provide and protect and all of that it implies you are nothing but helpless beings in need of direction. If women weren’t, then there wouldn’t be such phrases as those said above they would do for themselves what adults are supposed to do. If men get bombarded with that at home it’s awful hard to not do it in society. Can’t just turn a switch. It needs to be a character and culture switch in women in society if you all want that to change.

[StormMistress]

I get it but you have to remember it’s been conditioned into us for centuries and it takes time for societal changes to happen.

[motownplayer2000]

Not just time. An effort from the women side to show that they are more than just being in need of taken care of.. yes, we all depend on each other. Spouses depend on each other. But I shouldn’t have to kill a spider for you because you are scared of things like that. That’s what children do, or have a honey do list of things around the house that need to be attended too because you believe that a man should do it, when it’s something a woman can do just as easily. I’ll willingly do it, but that’s the kind of stuff that children do, they can’t do those things, but an rational thinking adult can. But yeah, sorry I ranted. Lol

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@StormMistress It's so easy for everyone these days to write off things the way nature intended them to be as "social constructs" and "conditioning".
No one's been conditioned into anything, that's just the way it is.
If anything women are being conditioned into thinking they're more capable than they are.
Take that however you want, but I won't apologize for being right

[MementoMori777]

I mean I can understand in some situations but I'd feel more comfortable if I was the one to pull the trigger, and tbh if a big percentage of women had the ability to defend themselves the rape crime rates would be low, or at least lower than they are now, I guess that would depend on what you are debating here of course.

[StormMistress]

Not rape specifically that’s another thing entirely with this. If someone is at risk or is getting hurt you help them always.

I’m talking about more in an everyday tone. We can’t make our own decisions or we don’t know what we’re talking about etc.

[MementoMori777]

Oh then this question isn't for me lol whoops

[StormMistress]

Haha Sok lovelies all good ❤️

[Anemone978]

I believe it is what you put out... I have never been treated like that by anyone not even my husband... lol I always put out a I will slit your throat aura 🤣🤣

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

To be honest, I like being treated like this with my partner.

Outside of a relationship I am someone you never want to mess with though.

[StormMistress]

Yeah I’m the same. With a partner I love being protected and taken care off. Stranger though it’s a little patronising.

[FilmGuy93]

Many men have life experiences with many women just being lost in their own little worlds. Reality is just different for women than it is for men.

[NYCQuestions1976]

I've never really given it much thought. I'm sarcastic towards everyone, so maybe I'm not exactly the best person to supply an opinion on this subject. 😂

[StormMistress]

Haha maybe not 😂

[Reddy4it]

Love my boyfriend doing it to me…but hate condescension…

[StormMistress]

Yep same here. Great for my partner. Society however nope.

[Reddy4it]

Funny how we only allow it…maybe it’s trust on our part too

[StormMistress]

Oh definitely it’s because we are still in control. We choose to be treated like such by our partners. Society wise it’s not our choice at all.

[Reddy4it]

Mmhmm…so true…wise woman…

[StormMistress]

Naw you give me way too much credit lovely x

[Reddy4it]

@StormMistress you deserve it… xx

[StormMistress]

Ditto to you too xx

[Reddy4it]

Aww…stop… 🤗

[Guanfei]

*pat head*

Yeah, that a great thought you had there, honey, I'm proud of you. 😏

[Guanfei]

Sorry, I couldn't miss that opportunity to be an ass. 😏
That's just in our instinct I suppose, even tho I rarely do so.

[StormMistress]

Sok you are my exception here lovely 🥰 You can talk down to me all you like x

[Guanfei]

Beware I might just do that 😏

[Berethor]

Power hair trope, can google it, yea because you small, and men protect young women more.

[Anonymous]

Let's be real, women infantilize themselves.

https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/feminist-hysteria-is-causing-the-infantilization-of-women

[slatyb]

Because they are massively insecure and it makes them feel superior.

[Luffy1990]

A mixture of romance, in which believing that girl has to treated like a princess to show how special they are. Some couples do have pet names.

[Anonymous]

Because girls act like that...

" I don't know what to do "

"Men need to pay for everything"

"Men need to provide and protect us "

If women act submissive intentionally for their own benefit indoors, they should be treated same outdoors too.

[ilovelamp]

Act like a child, get treated like a child?
Act like a damsel in distress who needs protecting, get a protectooor?

[Alitheia]

Because most women are just overgrown children, never mentally maturing past teenage stage. If someone is a slave to their emotions they don't deserve to be taken seriously, much less be trusted to help run the world

[Anonymous]

I actually see more of the opposite... broken men who look up to us as if we’re the nurturing mom they never had rather than as a girlfriend

[PointTaken]

My thoughts are: I don't know anything about this. Has it happened to you? Just tell the guy you're a little older than 11 and call him a pedo

[Usernamestinks]

In men’s dna to protect especially his woman kids friends.

[LimitedBenefits101]

"women and children come first"

There's your answer.

[Alex8736]

lately it seems like its the other way around where men are the ones being infantilised

[Xtendable]

I don’t know. I can imagine it would feel very degrading

[Anonymous]

Because some of you women want to be treated as such?

[Anonymous]

You do realize it is women who are infantilizing women, right?

[Anonymous]

Superiority complex.