Why do some men bully women?

[Babydoll13]

How come a Adult male will bully another adult female for something that is not her fault?

Example: My guy friend won't get over the fact my two best friends won't date him, and now he bullies me every chance he gets because he says its my fault...there was nothing I could have done because both girls were with someone already...

[nakesia]

It's not your fault. I have a story. Two years ago. I got a new mailman. He was the most prettiest white guy I've ever seen. He was in his forties like me. Well, I asked him his name. He told me. Then he went outside to take the mail to the truck. He stopped by the door. I thought to myself, this isn't good. He came back in and started yelling at me. You got something you want to say to me. I said no. He said, You sure about that. I said, yes. He said, Anything else you want to know. I said, No. He said, That's it. I told him, I think he's so cute. He smiled and said Thank you and left. He was nasty to me before that. Now, today. We actually get along somewhat. He have his moments. He likes to roll his eyes sometimes. I guess you can't change people. So, I stay away from him

[Darkfairie17]

I would have to say that in this guy's case, he's upset they won't go out with them and is insecure and therefore feels the need to try and knock the girls down a notch for not wanting to date them. But if he really feels that way and is acting like that, then I don't blame them for not wanting to date the guy.

Usually people bully because they are jerks and want to make others feel bad.

I've been bullied by guys because I liked them and they thought I was gross. It's just plain rude. I like the guy, he doesn't like me, whatever. That doesn't mean a guy has to be rude to me.

I know it's not just guys, it's girls too. People need to be more respectful.

[lumos]

It's because it makes them feel better about themselves. It makes them feel like they have all the control. As for your example, it's because he can't face the fact that they didn't like him enough to break up with their boyfriends (with good reason, apparently, because he sounds lovely). Instead of taking it like a champ and moving on, he's stuck on it and keeps blaming everyone else for his lack of success. It's always easier to blame everyone else but yourself.

[abzence]

This guy obviously feels disappointed and rejected. And in order to attempt to save a bruised ego he blames you instead of accepting reality.

[Anonymous]

Bullies bully people, both guys and girls. They are assholes.

[Lauren2410]

After the guy I liked rejected me,everytime I'd run into his friends,they'd make fun of me,call me fat,laugh and everything.One day I strated crying.But they don't realize how much it hurts,because they haven't been humiliated like that. Idiots,what can you do?

[ArabianPwincess197]

they like the idea of physical power over women or the fact they can cause them to fear them which makes them feel better about their image

[gostar]

bullies bully because they have problems of their own and can't deal with it

[Anonymous]

The same reason girls do it to guys. They're just bad people

[Stephen10]

Same reason women bully men.