Being a gentleman=having a coffee with me?

[Anonymous]

• My boyfriend was feeling bad and tired yesterday, went to sleep super early

This morning before work i was near hi house earlier than usual and sent message : Im near you, if you want we can have some coffe.

He said: I think not, other day maybe. I feel dead...

Afrer 4 minutes he sends me:

Ok fine, yes, lets meet, ill see you at "Mindies"

... i asked him when met:wbat changed your mind?

He said:I thought I can't let down my Jess... I"ll be a gentleman

Id unno you guys but I find it weird or am i overreactong?

Is it valid answer?

[summiter]

I think it is good that he had second thoughts and met with you. Are you sexually involved with him or things still kinda starting out?

[Asker]

Yeah we have sex sometimes

[summiter]

Well have fun, enjoy the sex and see how it goes with him!

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Means he cares enough about you that he feels terrible but still wants to be with you and see you happy as I see it.

[Asker]

Why i feel like he wants me to see he is doing me a favor
When actually havin g a coffee with your girlfriend would be smth what a normal man is looking for?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

If he does all the time, I think maybe you need to find a new guy. But if he's just going through a hard phase and he's genuine in his feeling and it's not gonna last forever, I think he's doing something genuinely nice to see you when he feels like he wants to die.

[Asker]

Im not sure tho
I never ask him anything
Im the one doing favors for him not him for me
He wasn't aal that bad
I saw him drink coffee asked you feel bad still. he said he is ok

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Sometimes people just feel bad and stressed out. Way I see it is that if they continue that way too long and our persuasions don't fix them, it's time to leave not necessarily because they don't value the relationship, but because we're so incompatible.

[spartan55]

He didn't want to hear about not going, so he went.