Playing hard to get or he just doesn't want my sexy snaps?

[Anonymous]

i sent him 2 sexy snaps in a red dress. He saw them at 12 am. didn't reply for 2 whole hours until finally he sent ayy what are you dressed up for? What's that mean?

[spartan55]

First of all, you didn't even include basic info (who the guy is and maybe a summary of your history with him). This will result in opinions that aren't helpful.
Second.. guys don't play hard to get... this is a common myth you girls believe for some reason) so cross that one off. Maybe he didn't think the pic was all that sexy. I know that's probably impossible for you to wrap your head around...

[Asker]

he asked for nudes lol and I told him I dont feel comfy and now left on read LOL

[RoastedToast]

Going from our convo on the other reply thread if you like the fact you distracted thim then it's a good sign lol. Hmm hard to say he could be weighing his options right now.

[RoastedToast]

Just because you think someone is hot doesn't necessarily mean you would want to date them right. If you have better chemistry with someone else. Something to think about

[Asker]

Ugh i like him but kinda salty he asked for nudes lol who does he think i am? Only fans?

[Asker]

Has been giving me mixed signals from the start and now bluntly asks?

[RoastedToast]

He asked for nudes just now?

[Asker]

he said he wouldn't mind if I sent him a pic in a bra lol

[Asker]

will he be offended and dislike me if I leave him on read lol you don't ask a girl that you don't even know like that. or like I change the subject lol

[RoastedToast]

Just tell him you're not comfortable with that

[RoastedToast]

If he's genuine he'll take it on the chin and change the subject. If he's only after one thing he will try to push matters further

[Asker]

lol I was sending suggestive pics of my tits lol but with clothes on. and my abs and all with crop tops. do you think that makes it valid to ask as his next step lol or still kinda douchey

[RoastedToast]

Honestly it depends on the context of your relationship with him. I won't deny that is the next step from what you been teasing him with already. It's up to you if you're okay with it or not tho in the end of the day

[Asker]

lol i dont know him just been flirting with him

[Asker]

he just puts fire emojis next to them lol

[Asker]

he followed me on insta liked my pics and I followed him back over a year ago lol I found his snap and have been snapping him for over 10 days now. he's so dryyyyy usually lol but sup cute so I kept going lol.

[Asker]

he lives like 2 hours away from me rn but I'm moving 1 hr next to him next semester. i told him he should take me to his fav coffeeshop lol and he didn't resp to that message lol

[Jamie05rhs]

He was probably in the middle of war in a video game, so he couldn't respond because he didn't want to get his head blown off. Haha

[Asker]

What lol im fine w replying late i thought he was going to leave me on read and id cry lol. Just conf why he didn't say you look good or hot or something

[Jamie05rhs]

Because he was busy. Lol

(That's just my best guess, anyway.)

[Asker]

Ok lol thank you overthinking girl over here

[Asker]

he asked for nudes :/ guess he likes me lol maybe not the way I want

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, he did? Damn. I'm sorry.

[jshm2]

Reads like you've read the situation wrong.

[leahzrc]

he thinks your dressed up for someone else lmao

[Asker]

Lol i was it was for a friends house

[Asker]

But sent him the pic bc i looked cute

[leahzrc]

he doesn't know that

[Asker]

I told him it was friends house lol

[leahzrc]

maybe he doesn't believe you

[Asker]

Lol he asked for nudes after oop

[leahzrc]

lol he think you are a hoe

[Asker]

yes rip

[LLStylish]

I dont know. Did he like it or not.

[Asker]

Thats why im conf lol why did he not say if he liked it or not :/

[LLStylish]

Don't get me wrong, but usually my friends always ask me if a girl is pretty. Because my views are always correct. They know this. I can't see those photos, can I or not? So i can easily answer your question.

[Asker]

I already know im pretty lol have an amazing body no worries

[LLStylish]

But my friend. There is something you didn't think about. When you and your friend go to the mall , you both do not choose the same dress. If you like colorful dresses, your friend may like patterned dresses more. If my favorite fruit is an orange, yours might be an apple. There is also something different in all of these I have counted. Sometimes something happens. 450 out of 500 people find this thing beautiful. If you think you're like that, that's fine. But do people think so?

[RoastedToast]

Dude stop trying to ask her to give you those "sexy snaps" she's not asking how she looks.

[Asker]

@RoastedToast lol thank you 💕

[Asker]

Yes people think so i get hit on a lot ngl everyone says im hot girls and guys both

[Asker]

But doesn't mean im his cup of tea still necessarily

[Asker]

Because he's hot too

[RoastedToast]

🤷‍♂️ maybe you're not his cup of tea. Or maybe he wants to come across as more traditional if you in what I mean. If you like him you can always try a more direct approach and just ask him out. It saves you both time and simple straight to the point

[Asker]

@RoastedToast true I've been flirting tho he told me my pic last time distracted him. And he sent fire on it. And to send him more like that lol. But then i sent him banana split but no one to split and he said i should eat it all myself (since i hadn't had food all day but still)

[Asker]

Fml he asked me to send him nudes ewwww now i have to block him ig :((((

[RoastedToast]

😂😂

[LLStylish]

All girls are so poor. I would swear.

[Asker]

poor?

[LLStylish]

Like pure. Like can be fooled so easily.