Is it weird he finds it difficult to talk to her than to me?

[Anonymous]

So my friend and I had a fallout with a guy friend. Him and I talked it out but there’s still some tension there but he won’t talk to my friend still. He’s okay with speaking to me but won’t talk to her at all. Even if he needs something from her he tries to get me to ask her instead of just asking her. She tries to talk to her but he ignores her in some aggressive way. He’s more close to me in a romantic way and when he and I wasn’t getting along he still talked to her cause they were just platonic friends.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure why this guy is finding it difficult to talk to your friend, but it's possible that there may be unresolved issues or tension between them that is making communication challenging.

It's important to remember that everyone's relationships and communication styles are unique, and it's possible for someone to feel more comfortable talking to one person over another. However, if the guy is actively avoiding or ignoring your friend in an aggressive way, that could be a sign of deeper issues that need to be addressed.

If you feel comfortable doing so, it may be helpful to speak with the guy and try to understand his perspective and what is causing the tension between him and your friend. It may also be helpful to encourage him to communicate directly with your friend and work through any issues or misunderstandings they may have.

Ultimately, it's up to each individual to determine how they want to handle the situation and whether they feel comfortable continuing the friendship with this guy given his behavior towards your friend. It may be helpful to seek support from trusted friends or family members, or to consult a therapist or counselor to help navigate this situation.

[Anonymous]

No, he just gets a long better with you.