Is it weird for a 44 year old guy to attend the 18 to 21 year olds church night group?

[Anonymous]

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He’s going to this group hoping to find a date… this guy is 44 but looks 50 something

[Anonymous]

It's not necessarily "weird" for a 44-year-old guy to attend a church night group for 18 to 21-year-olds, but it might be unusual or unexpected. It's important to consider the purpose and goals of the group, as well as the expectations of the members and organizers. If the group is specifically designed for young adults and focuses on topics or activities that may not be relevant or interesting to someone who is significantly older, it might not be the best fit. However, if the group is open to all ages and the individual feels comfortable and welcomed by the other members, there's no reason why he couldn't attend. Ultimately, it's up to the individual to decide if the group is a good fit for them and if they feel comfortable participating.

[strateguy632]

just attending is not bad, how he flirts depends. some age twenty like older men reference charlie chaplin etc.

[Haha456]

chances are he is just a pervert desperate for a girl 20 years younger. score some young pussy.

[TooHot2Care]

Excuse me? It is 2023 woman. He could also be trying to score some young choir boy bussy.

[Iron_Man]

I’ve been in the same situation where else are they going to fit you into a senior citizen category? That’s what you call Mr. in between. There was a song made about that with Burl Ives.

[Iron_Man]

They either have younger youth, or old old people, Mr., in between

[Iron_Man]

And if you can’t even hang out with people in their late 20s, at the church what are you supposed to do?

[Iron_Man]

I remember one time when I was in my early 20s they put me with middle school people and we had competition games running around the auditorium and I felt so awkward at that place that I didn’t go back there were no competition to me. They’re like kids in the events

[Haha456]

I'm 27. Even hanging out with 17 yr olds make me cringe. I have nothing in common with them. I feel like I'm supervising them.

[Iron_Man]

@Haha456 that’s why I left the middle age group after one day but it’s different if you’re a teacher or instructor or a coach

[Iron_Man]

I mean middle school church group

[Iron_Man]

The neighborhood kids that were younger used to come over and work out in my gym. That was OK one time they wanted me to go on a garbage dump run smashing garbage cans that was funny in my truck. Dropping garbage cans in the other other garbage cans at full speed.

[Iron_Man]

I mean, driving faster

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

you have to really love kids in order to be a teacher or instruct teenagers. I can say that teenagers are the most annoying, obnoxious, immature people ever. I simply do not have the patience to deal with them. I'm 27, the youngest I will hangout with is 21.

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

I really don't blame senior citizens for screaming at kids to get off their lawn. I can't stand them either.

[Iron_Man]

I had Coached a teenager neighbor in the Special Olympics. She did very well. And won

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

different from hanging out with them...

[Haha456]

teenagers are rambunctious, their jokes aren't even funny, immature, attention seeking, irresponsible.

[Iron_Man]

@Haha456 this girl was actually a older teen I took her down to downtown Miami for New Year’s Eve to watch the fireworks. The parents thought that was a good idea she had down syndrome. But I was back in my 20s.

[Iron_Man]

And I trained her for the Special Olympics

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

I worked at a university. Trust me when i say that there were always random teenage girls crying all the time either in the lounges or in the bathroom.

[Iron_Man]

@Haha456 wow sounds very emotional

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

cuz teenage girls brains are still not developed yet. its normal for teens to get ridiculously emotional over very little nonsense. they're mentally unstable.

[Iron_Man]

@Haha456
Yes

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

I'd rather deal with a little kid than a teenager. Little kids are more obedient and predictable.

[Iron_Man]

@Haha456 I guess because they probably are more higher maintenance and want things and if things don’t go right that’s what happens kids just go with the flow they’re not demanding but some kids can be spoiled to

[Iron_Man]

I think teenagers probably cry over their boyfriends and want to be socially accepted

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

no, its likely something more benign than that. like i said, teen girls are emotionally unstable. another reason why i can't stand them. Not to mention , irresponsible and entitled too.

[Haha456]

you would assume teenage boys are more annoying than teen girls. but trust me, they're just about pretty much the same.

[Haha456]

funny thing is... i hate other people's kids. but I love my own future kids despite their annoying factors. I plan on having kids in 5 years. Things are just entirely different when you carry your own children.

[Iron_Man]

@Haha456 I wouldn’t wait five years if you’re already 31 years old

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

my mom had me at 37. I'm not afraid.

[Iron_Man]

It’s a little risky. Be careful.

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

truth is... if you have been taking care of yourself and you don't genetic predisposition to early infertility, there's no reason why a woman wouldn't be able to give birth in her mid to late 30s.

[Haha456]

If a woman is infertile at 34-37. It usually either means she didn't take good care of her health or she as a disease or genetic predisposition to early infertility. In my extended family, all my relatives gave birth in their 30s.

[Haha456]

Its not risky unless the woman is over 36.

[Iron_Man]

Yeah, but that puts you on the border at 36

[Iron_Man]

Why wait another five years

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

because I want to enjoy life, build my career, see if I can find love.

I'm having a child as a single parent. The ability to give life is a privilege

[Iron_Man]

I never thought as a single parent

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

I'm gonna give you some wisdom: time doesn't stop for anyone. Don't delay. Enjoy your time now or it will just pass by. Make use of every single year of life you have. Do all the things you wanna do right now rather later. You might not live another 10 years. So dont procrastinate. When time goes by, you can never get it back.

thats why I am having a kid now. Being a mother is something I always wanted to be.

A lot of people say they want to wait till they find love before they have kids. Guess what? maybe they will never find love. maybe that time will never come. If you want a kid, have it right now.

[Iron_Man]

@Haha456 what makes you think you can’t find happiness when having a child soon you can still travel and do things don’t you have any relatives that can watch the kid if you want to go on vacation

[Haha456]

@Iron_Man

my parents are abusive... im not letting them watch my child. My relatives never cared for me. I'm thinking about moving away down south to another state and raise my child there. I want to create a loving family- something I never had. I want a dog, and 2 kids. So we can live the rest of our lives happily. I will have a very high paying job so I'm not worried about finances. But likely I will have to send my kids to summer camp so I can get a few months off.

[Haha456]

I have tried looking for baby daddies. but the only ones that were interested are immigrants on visas looking to marry for a green card. they hope having kids here will give them permanent residency.

I want someone brilliant to make a baby with me. I want smart babies.

[Iron_Man]

@Haha456 I wish you the best of luck on that

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, it's weird, but where do you expect him to go? Just friend zone him politely and try to be nice to him. Pray for him. Maybe he will pray for you as well.

[Googlemyahoo]

I think it’s weird that you goto one. What does a church group do have a big orgy and sacrifice goats?

[Shamalien]

Hmm woman seem to take this the wrong way XD I mean yeah men want young wives lol what ya gon do

[Sparkie460]

No it's not weird. They need adults to supervise. You have to keep order so nobody gets out of hand or hurt.

[slatyb]

Yes, very. I'm surprised they permit it.

[Summeroflove]

…… I guess it could be

[RavVid]

Unless he is the pastor I'd have severe doubts.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

The clue is in the name.

[Greenbean27]

That is suspicious, I would be wary

[shortster]

What kind of event is it?

[OddBeMe]

Yes unless it’s for teaching or window shopping.

[AviatorTom]

Yep, nuff said

[TooHot2Care]

Yes.

[astrophelle]

He’s weirdo..

[Christoff92]

No. It's acceptable

[shades777]

depends