Was I emotionally manipulated into sex, what do y'all think?

Anonymous
It all started Wednesday night. I’m on dating apps right now and a guy that I matched with and really liked said he only uses snapchat to communicate.. I added him on snapchat and we started talking.. mid-way through the night I see that someone added me from quicl add by the name of “Shawn.” I add this person thinking it was my brother’s old romantic interest that was transgender.. so we talk casually and sext over the night. (Talking about going to the movies then hooking up in his car) I text this person good morning on Thursday and apparently it was one of the old people I was talking to on bumble by the name of Josh. He said he really liked me and we were chatting up well so he wanted to try to wow me by being someone else. I have borderline personality disorder so the idea of someone being that obsessed with me was alluring.. anyways - so we keep talking and catch up. Thursday night we sext each other and throughout this time he continues to call me “honey” We then continue talking into Friday and decide to see each other. We had sex Friday nighy and shortly after I got upset, started crying expressing that I feel like he might leave me now. He reassured me that he’d stay and never leave and called me “honey, sweetie, ect” throughout the night. After this, he started to get extremely dry and spotty with responses. I haven’t heard from him since Saturday afternoon, it is now Sunday. Have I been ghosted and emotionally manipulated?
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10 mo
**he is a virgin by the way/ or supposedly was.. I wonder how many girls he does this to?
Was I emotionally manipulated into sex, what do y'all think?
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