Did the sex ruined my relationship , please give me your advice?

[warwolf1304hh]

i was dating this girl, and we were having a conversation and she said to me if the sex was not that good i would not be intersted in our relationship, i told her what if one day it is no longer that good she said i will ask and try to figure it out with you, i told her for me i will always see you the same no matter what happen, i will see you as the first time i meet you and nothing will change, she said to me i will be a liar if i said the same thing, at the same time she said i have feelings for you and she cares for me, but i do not want our relationship to stand for sex only, i told her if you see it that way then lets make this relationship jsut physical she said no, because of this conversation we endeed the relationship, what do you think guys?

[Screenwriter]

It sounds like she wasn't able to take the risk of having a relationship that wasn't 365 degrees whole -- sex and the non-sexual aspects, and she didn't only want friends with benefits. I don't think there was anything else you could've done.

There are no guarantees about either side of a relationship. The sex might work out, the relationship side might, one might fail, or both may fail. Move on to someone more reasonable. Good luck.

[Selene1600000]

You both wanted different things: you wanted unconditional emotional connection, while she was honest that physical compatibility matters to her too. Neither of you is wrong, but that mismatch makes a relationship hard to sustain. Ending it was probably the right call because you weren’t aligned on what love means.

[Nikki1989]

Some men are just not successful in bed. It is like anything; some are not gifted in that department. It doesn't make you a bad person, and sex is certainly not everything.