Is it ok to have sex after bad breakups?

[Anonymous]

Is it ok to have sex after bad breakups. My ex is not coming back. I know most exes do come back, but not mine. I'm not looking for any rebound relationships. I'm not lonely. I'm just wondering

Yes

No

[OlderAndWiser]

"Is it ok to have sex after bad breakups." You shouldn't have sex with your ex. If you are asking about a new partner, it's okay if you have clearly disclosed your circumstances.

"My ex is not coming back. I know most exes do come back, but not mine." No, most exes do not come back.

"I'm not looking for any rebound relationships. I'm not lonely." So you just want to have sex, like with a prostitute?

[Asker]

All I'm asking, if it's ok to have sex with someone else, then your ex

[OlderAndWiser]

Why would you want to have sex with someone else FIRST, and then why would you want to have sex with your ex at all?

[Asker]

Become my ex is not coming back. She dumped me for someone else, plus their getting married soon

[TaureanBull81]

After my exGF and I broke up 3 years ago, I went back to a previous friends with benefits which helped me move on pretty quickly.

[Asker]

Those are hard to come by

[TaureanBull81]

I was lucky that she was craving sex as well.

[Asker]

Nice, friends with benefits, or finding casual sex are hard to come by.

[TaureanBull81]

You're not wrong there!

[TaureanBull81]

Thanks for the MHO 😊

[Abbycado]

If that is what you and the person you are having sex with want. It is only going to temporarily fill a void though.

[Asker]

I'm guessing I should wait a while in months' time before having sex again

[Abbycado]

Hey, totally up to you. All I was saying is that it is a temporary fix. After, you are right back where you are, right? But do what makes sense for you.

[Asker]

I'm trying to avoid that temporary fix. I don't want that temporary fix to become problems later on. I'm not going back on dating or have any fwbs anytime soon

[Abbycado]

Then probably wait I would say.

[Fanfare690]

Have sex with her your ex or someone else?

[Asker]

Someone else

[Fanfare690]

It's not ideal or healthy... like give yourself some time to heal first before mixing soul ties with another

[Asker]

My plan is to heal

[Fanfare690]

Heal a bit first then go have your fun

[Asker]

I'll probably put the fun on hold after I'm healed so I can also rebuild my confidence, trust, and self-esteem. From the damages my ex did

[Fanfare690]

Sorry that happened to you

[Asker]

It could have been worse

[molonski2]

I dont think its a YES/NO , I think its circumstance dependent , there are times its right and times its Not.

[molonski2]

I read the question incorrectly now I see , I thought you meant with EX..
My answer is now a big YES.

[RespectfulGuy]

Happened to me so many times until the term "my ex" becomes an unique identity. 😅

PS: and made up sex is REALLY good.

[laly520]

whatever suits u just dont trick anyone else n make it clear u r only there for sex

[mandyfire98]

As long as you are being safe.

[TheDaydreamer]

depends on why you are doing it

[strateguy632]

yes,