Did I over react to getting kicked out after sex?

[Anonymous]

I recently hooked up with a guy who I had worked with for several months, we’ve been flirty friends for a long time but nothing ever happened while we worked together.

We matched on hinge and both said we didn't want anything serious just wanted a bit of fun and we agreed for me to go around his. I ended up going round ti his at 8pm and I was there for about 45 mis as right after we slept together he asked me to leave as his flat mate was coming back. The whole thing lasted about 10 mins and felt very rushed

I just feel a bit used even if it was just sex, I didn't expect to be rushed out the for and kind of expected to be at his house for a bit longer. I think because we had been flirting for ages i may have built it up in my head and expect more from it.

As he was kicking me out he started talking about sleepovers and how he normally would cuddle after.

Am i overracting for feeling hurt

[Anonymous]

No. It's natural feeling for a girl wanting to spend more time or to talk sweet or wanting to hear some honey words, or expecting such type thing after sex. It's their natural feeling no matter it's just temporary or it's just simply hookup but the harmones she gets in her body after sex naturally makes her to want all those things for that time being. And so it's natural to feel hurt if such things happen and they do feel like they got "used". You are okay. It's normal.

[egarcia1360]

That feeling is perfectly normal, and it's exactly why casual sex is so destructive, individually and societally.