Is my boyfriend using me?

[Anonymous]

He ask for money to gamble so he can get money

When I was out of work but received lump sum for awhile he ask for money

He ask money to get a piece for his car

He ask if I could get a loan for him to buy a bike but claim he will pay for it

[lightbulb27]

very possibly. some guys are maniuplative and will neve rpay it back. if he is, that's good, but I'm doubting it.

if you are a good hearted, sensitive, kind, caring person... and he's a smooth talking manipulator, then run until you can sort this out and find a guy whom can contribute.

[richardcory]

Never give or loan money to a gambler. Its a pit that can never be filled. If he is addicted, then its beyond your ability to help him and don't let him drag you down with him

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Don't give a guy any money unless he's starving, living in the gutter and crippled. Other than that, he can get off his lazy ass and find a damn job.

[Fireguy17]

If you are giving him money yes he is and will keep using you as long as the money lasts.

I'm thinking if you cut him off he might just fade away.

[spartan55]

Well hopefully you weren't dumb enough to give it to him.

[mommymommymommy]

When my dad was out of work for 4 years after being laid odd multiple times, was it "using my mom" when he was using her money to pay bills?

[spartan55]

Apples and oranges dude.

[slatyb]

Do not give him money. Is he the last single man on your planet?

[jammcm]

Pack your bag and head out. Good men or women do not ask for money from their potential boy/girl friend.

[Sparkie460]

He's the male version of a goldigger. He is just using you

[jjj101010]

Sounds like it

[dudeinohio]

Using you