Is my boyfriend taking advantage of me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend.
we went out together and we were ordered a food at
Restaurants but he doesn't pay for his meals he always tell me that he doesn't have money even i said you pay for your meals i do the same he was upset and i pay anyway ;( . Even when I went out with him with his friend when bill came he gave me the bill to pay for because they stare at me and he told me when my salary came i will give u back then he doesn't he lied. I don't know why he do that if he pay for himself its better. I avoid to go out with his friends they are group so he will do the same to let me pay for. I am thinking to end my relationship with him am i doing right or bad?

[MementoMori777]

Well that's the most fucked up shit I read all day, hm slow day today 🤔

Either ways if you want to end it I can definitely understand why, he seems to be taking advantage of you and you should definitely end it if you feel like you should because there's no reason you should be paying for his stuff, honestly, where are his manners and manhood at.

[Asker]

He is not man because man never do that. Because he invite his friends at end i told me pay for the bills :/ this is want to end my relationship. He pay for his cellphone but at restaurant with me not. If he pays for his meals its better. I will buy for my own i never ask him to buy me a gift or i have my own money i do what ever i like but for order his meals its red flag at first its okay but always noo and with his friends this is not a love when a guy like her he never let his girl to pay for his friends meals 💔.

[Asker]

Sorry i mistake my English i was write fast 😭😭

[MementoMori777]

I agree, i don't understand why a guy would treat their woman like that but I guess there's shitty men out there and that's no surprise, don't be unmotivated tho anon, good men do exist and those are the men you should put your effort for and money if you decide too, don't let this miserable excuse of a man unmotivate you completely.

[Asker]

Thanks I will end my relationship with him today

[MementoMori777]

My best wishes to you on that and in the future results 💯

[lightbulb27]

this is messed up because he is lying. if he's contributing in some positive way it's another matter, money isn't the only currency. but he sounds like he's using you and you can do better. that you are asking this question makes me question your self esteem and worth so examine yourself

Time to go to church and find Jesus and rebuild inner self possibly.

[AllAloneInTheWorld]

Next time make sure you don't take your wallet or have any means to pay and see what happens. I do think you should dump him though what a jerk to tell you to pay not only for his meal but for his friends as well

[Nikki1989]

Yes, he is using you. You know what to do.

[Finchie40]

The fact that he is expecting you to pay every time you go out Yes dump him, he is clearly taking advantage of you , A gentlemen won’t even hesitate to pay the bill for a girl he values , a little boy will expect the girl to pay , it needs to go both ways or it is a waste of time

[MikeInHawaii]

Dump him. “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!”

[Blueeyes81]

You have a freeloader. It'll be cheaper in the long run to dump him.

[itsalyssaagain]

He’s 100% using you.

[nawtee_me]

Leave him