I stopped seeing a guy only because he didn’t brush his teeth. Should I tell him that? I feel like it may be helpful for him to know?

[SomeoneSimple]

His teeth were kind of jacked too but I wouldn’t have minded it if they were clean.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you found it difficult to continue seeing someone who did not prioritize their dental hygiene. However, it's important to consider how to approach the situation in a respectful and tactful manner.

If you feel comfortable doing so, you could consider mentioning it to him in a kind and non-judgmental way. You could say something like, "Hey, I wanted to let you know that I really enjoyed spending time with you, but I noticed that you seemed to have some issues with dental hygiene. I think it's important for both our health and well-being to take care of our teeth, and I wanted to bring it to your attention in case it's something you weren't aware of."

It's important to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding, and to avoid making him feel ashamed or embarrassed about the issue. If he takes your feedback positively, he may appreciate the opportunity to improve his dental hygiene and be more confident in his future relationships.

It's up to you to decide whether or not to bring up the issue, but it's important to prioritize open and honest communication in any relationship.

[worldscolide]

eww, yuck. Do not blame you for leaving. Umm But its doubtful he will be receptive to you saying that. Especially since you dumped him.

[SomeoneSimple]

I agree. It’s been 3 days now. At this point it would be extremely rude.. especially since I’m not 100% sure I’d move forward with the relationship if he decided to make the change.

[Whatisthatname]

You know he didn't brush them? If that was the only thing, then maybe you should've told him before you stopped seeing him?

[SomeoneSimple]

I thought about that but he had serious gingivitis. It wasn’t like he just didn’t brush them once. Could he have gone that long without anyone saying anything?

[Whatisthatname]

And you know it's caused by him bit brushing his teeth? Like you know he didn't do it? Why wouldn't you say something?

[TheSpaceGnome]

You should always explain why you dump someone, regardless of what that reason is.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Lmao tell him