If you are the father... why should I ask someone else for help?

[Anonymous]

I have two baby girls... one is 2 year old and other is 6 months. I want to get back to work and we can't afford child care right now. I asked him if he could help and watch them. He has his own business so he has more freedom than me. He told me "No... ask a woman what to do and stop bothering me this." I dont know a lot of people in this area well to watch my babies. People are crazy. I'm just stressed.

[humanearth]

OMG I'm so sorry that you have to put up with that. I have this saying.

Anyone can be a father, but it takes a special man to be a Daddy.

My youngest daughter just went though the same thing with her low life of a boyfriend that she had a child with. She finely kick his sorry excuse for a man to the curb and took him to court for child support

Do you live close to your mom and dad? Maybe they can help

[Anonymous]

He has his own business so probably in reality has less freedom, working twice as hard/long as the standard wageslave

[Akam93]

Sounds like a deadbeat.