Have you ever thought someone was out of your league only to realize they like you too?

[Anonymous]

[Effably]

Yes. I don't really bother with these notions anymore as I have come to terms with the fact that I myself do not understand what about me is attractive to different people. I worry a bit that my lack or understanding on the matter may part of my fantastic appeal!

First ever girl I was with was to me a 13/10, anyone else would probably still have given her a strong 10. Most beautiful girl I ever saw at the time. Still ranks in top 2, including anyone I have seen on movies, digitial media and so on theoughout my life. Now I don't consider myself unattractive but its fair to say we were far apart. Lucky me though, she did not think so or at least it wasn't a problem to her. Never made me feel as if I was undeserving of her.

[Asker]

Would it be okay if I dmed you

[shades777]

not out of my league but im always shocked to see who likes me, thats why on tinder i swipe right on everyone, Im just curious to see who Im attracting and evaluate if I need to change to get the women I actually want.


Womwn are strange they say stuff like i need help with homework or I just got a new place want to check it out, or im in the area wanted to know if i can stop by.


Rarely do I get the level of direct-ness that I would give but thats what makes us different

[FilmGuy93]

Nope. I never bought into the concept of leagues.

[Asker]

I dmed you check your dms

[Asker]

Thanks

[FilmGuy93]

Okay, I'll take a look at my messages

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I’m the same way. I have seen people dare WAY up

[MementoMori777]

Considering I've had women way better looking then be show attraction, that league stuff seems somewhat bogus and it's why I've stopped myself from speaking to attractive women in general, of what you are asking is if they looked better than me physically then yes lol

[MementoMori777]

Never stopped myself, auto correct acting extra retarded today damn

[Anonymous]

I discovered my crush and I had mutual feelings at one point. I waited too long to do anything, and I discovered this after my failure. My inability to approach her had nothing to do with her being out of my "league". Her social standing did cause me some hesitation.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, unfortunately. Because girls never admit their feelings. (I could sense that she was into me, though.)

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. I have never subscribed to the "leagues" idea.

[Asker]

Can I dm you?

[Summeroflove]

Me neither. I think everyone’s different in what they’re looking for

[hi123]

I taught this usually happens when guys are after girls 😂

[TrillXHippy]

Yes and if I realize that they like me I’m still going to think that

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. You really never know.