Is it bad to go on a date with two different guys in the same week?

[Anonymous]

I am pretty newly single and had joined a dating website because I am really looking to meet the right person. After a few weeks of emailing one of the guys asked for my number, and called me a few says later. We made plans to meet each other. Then on the same night a guy from my past (not an ex, just used to have the same friends) found me on Facebook and asked if I want to go to dinner with him this week. So now I have two dates in the same week. I'm not dating either exclusively. I just don't know if it is really the right thing to do. What do you think about it?

[Anonymous]

It's dinner not some huge commitment. You limit your potential if you don't play the field initially because you won't click with everyone so why waste time being exclusive when the only thing at stake is a first date? If you wait for Mr. Perfect you'll never get out, so have fun find some friends and find some potential. When things start to get serious THEN you pick, but most the time guys self select and you're only left with one after a few dates.

[vmw2008]

Nope. If you're not exclusive with anyone it's perfectly acceptable to go on as many dates as you like. If he wants to be your one and only, he'll ask you to be. Before then, you're both free to date who you please.

[ShootingStar5]

Nope, as long as you haven't told either of them that you're exclusive with them. You're a free lady, you can do what you want.

[DocClassic]

i think as long as you are cool with them dating a bunch of girls too and they know what's up, its fine cause the playing field is even

[KERMlT]

It is pretty bad to go out with two different guys on the same night. Other than that you are fine. :)

[geronimojoesaephus]

It's OK to play the field in the beginning. Just drop one when the other gets more serious. Be honest. It's ok.

[Anonymous]

A lot of people like myself only ever date exclusively. I don't know if these guys only date exclusively or not, but they might feel cheated on if they are.

[MikeK]

Of course it's not bad -

just the other night, I had 2 separate dates with 2 different girls... only an hour apart from each other!

[Anonymous]

no I don't think its bad.. you're not dating either one of them.. and you never know who you will want to go out with a again or not..

[moisha]

girl you rock!