Did he rejected me?

[Anonymous]

Should I leave at that or text him again?

I send him after our first date thank you text. after thanking him he said likewise and then said hope rest of my evening was good. I said that my evening was good etc and asked what about him. He then said ”nice to hear that. Rest of my evening also went good and I spend it with family and friends.”

I asked him “ what did you think about the coffee place, did it meet your expectations”. I asked that because we never been to that place before.

Then he said” I have to admit it was pretty nice place, I can say it won’t be the last time I’m going there at least for me , what about you? :)”

Then I said “I would go back again, let me know if you’d like to meet there again” He then responded ” nice to hear that you liked it :)”

[Noodle_fan]

i understand , to you it seems that he didn't show interest

however i dont know anything about the guy , may be he just got divorced and want to take it slow? may be he is not really a texter? may be this , may be that? etc

[Spongebobssocks]

When did he reject you? I can't see it..

[Asker]

His last response. Didn’t he just brushed me off?

[Spongebobssocks]

Oh, hmm. I would just ask him straight out if I were you

[Asker]

Really? Wouldn’t that be desperate?

[Asker]

So are you saying he could be still interested?

[Spongebobssocks]

No its better. Just ask so you dont waste your time with him if he isn't intressted. No need to write a long paragraph just a simple question

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah he could be intressted

[Asker]

Do you think he brushed me off though?

[Spongebobssocks]

I have no idea. 50/50. Because of what he said before that then no. But if I only had read the end then yes. So I have no idea. You need to ask

[Asker]

What before he said was good sign?

[Spongebobssocks]

Him thanking you for the date, wishing you a good evening and him liking the place.

You are overthinking. Just ask him straight out and if he doesn't give a clear answer/say no then just move on. You need to value your self first

[Asker]

He thanked me after I thanked him :D

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah I know. He could have just said "you welcome" 😭😅. I mean he said it back at least.

[Asker]

I’m too anxious..

[Spongebobssocks]

Just ask!!

[Asker]

How do I ask him without coming across desperate?

[Spongebobssocks]

Just say "wanna meet up sometime next week?"

[Asker]

Should I before I ask that engage little bit small talk with him or straight up ask him?

[Spongebobssocks]

You already made small talk just ask him now

[Asker]

But it’s since been 24h after his last response

[Spongebobssocks]

Oh okay well then ask him when he text you

[Asker]

What if he doesn’t text me after his last text?

[Spongebobssocks]

Then he is not intressted

[Asker]

So I should wait that he texts me?

[Asker]

?:))

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah wait till he texts you. But try to not let him affect you. Just have fun

[In_Trance]

Leave it

[Asker]

Why do you think so?