Is he open for contact in the future?
He might be open to contact, but it's more likely that he's like me and just doesn't feel strongly enough about being in touch to do anything one way or the other.
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Asker+1 yI’m kinda mad. I accidentally texted him after almost 11months no contact. I was able to be nc for almost 11months
Asker+1 yIf he thinks I did it on purpose..
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Oh... Even then, if he responds just say that you meant to text someone else and that you've been trying to respect the no contact thing you had going. Who cares what he thinks?
People live busy lives. This stuff really isn't that big of a deal. If you messaged or called me and I didn't want to talk with you, I just wouldn't respond.
Asker+1 yI deleted the text when I noticed it. It happened yesterday. So far he hasn’t reacted to it…
Asker+1 ySince he hasn’t reacted to it I guess he doesn’t care to talk to me lol?
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+1 yUnless there was a bad breakup then blocking is unnecessary
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Asker+1 yActually it was quite bad. He rejected me. I removed him from instagram followers and he thought that it was ”drastic”. Then I messaged him on whatsapp and he left me on delivered. After that I never reached out to him. For my surprise I found out recently that I’m not blocked.
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Doesn't seem like a block situation still, not everyone hovers over the block button, I mean a toxic breakup lol
Asker+1 yI was kinda clingy towards him after he rejected I called him once and texted him twice. Still he didn’t block me
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I guess maybe he just wants to continue playing these games
Asker+1 yWhat kind of games?
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The back and forth distant shit
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Or maybe he just likes seeing that you keep reaching for him, like a boost of ego type of thing
Asker+1 yI’m kinda mad. I accidentally texted after almost 11months no contact. I was able to be nc for almost 11months :/
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And you cracked on the 12th lol, don't stress it too hard, it doesn't matter, just don't keep giving him the satisfaction of him knowing you haven't gotten over him
Asker+1 yWhat does ” The back and forth distant shit” means? Like on off relationship?
Asker+1 yI deleted the text as soon as I noticed I sent it to him. Do you think he will think I send it on purpose?
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No like texting him and ignoring, leaving on read, all that crap
Asker+1 yHe was the one who was ignoring me last time
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And technically he will never guess that you send it by accident cause who does that, he will just think you are still thinking of him and send it and then deleted it because of whatever reason he might come up with
Asker+1 yI don't know, is it good sign if he asks me about the deleted text?
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Good sign for what, what end game to you have planned with this?
Asker+1 yIf he wants to reconcile etc
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I see all ima say is that friendships are two sided as well.
Asker+1 yWhat do you mean?
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If he doesn't want too, it won't ever work out, it will all just be one sided, most of the time moving on is the most beneficial decision.
Asker+1 yby the way do you think this is coincidence?
I one time told him that I think I saw him in public wearing black beanie but I wasn’t sure that it was him. Next day he changed his instagram dp to a picture him wearing a black beanie. I feel like it was because of what we were talking about.
now we haven’t talked for almost a year and he still has that same dp on his instagram and whatsapp.- +1 y
He did it on purpose I'm sure and this is what I mean about distant games, I was sure he participated as well because I'm sure something kept you going in it as well, it's these signs he's throwing at you
Asker+1 yThat he’s kept the same dp?
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Just all this indirect stuff, it's just childish games really
Asker+1 yWhy would he do that though?
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I don't play these childish games so I wouldn't have a clue tbh
Asker+1 yDo you think he was hoping that I reach out to him?
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I don't know I say stop participating in the silly game and say how you feel, what happens after that all relies on his reply
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8.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. That or he never felt the need to block u
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Asker+1 yActually it was quite bad breakup. He rejected me. I removed him from instagram followers and he thought that it was ”drastic”. Then I messaged him on whatsapp and he left me on delivered. After that I never reached out to him. For my surprise I found out recently that I’m not blocked.
Asker+1 yI was afraid that he thinks I’m ”crazy”
Asker+1 yPeople would block if they think girl is clingy or something
Asker+1 yby the way do you think this is coincidence?
I one time told him that I think I saw him in public wearing black beanie but I wasn’t sure that it was him. Next day he changed his instagram dp to a picture him wearing a black beanie. I feel like it was because of what we were talking about.
now we haven’t talked for almost a year and he still has that same dp on his instagram and whatsapp.
Asker+1 yHe confirmed that he was wearing black beanie. Then next day he changed his picture to hin wearing a black beanie
Asker+1 yBut what if he posted to let me see how he looks with the black beanie?
Asker+1 yYeah you’re right I’m reaching
Asker+1 yI’m kinda mad. I accidentally texted him after almost 11months no contact. I was able to be nc for almost 11months
Asker+1 yI’m kinda hoping that he will react to that deleted text
Asker+1 yI don't know I’m kinda desperate tbh
Asker+1 yIt could genuinely be accident. He can’t day for sure of I did it on purpose or not
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Asker+1 yEarlier signs of what?
Asker+1 ySay in what way I have behaved crazy before?
Asker+1 yI just removed him from my instagram followers. I never blocked him.
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Asker+1 yI’m kinda mad. I accidentally texted him after almost 11months no contact. I was able to be nc for almost 11months
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