What does it mean when ex never blocked me?

[Anonymous]

Is he open for contact in the future?

[FilmGuy93]

He might be open to contact, but it's more likely that he's like me and just doesn't feel strongly enough about being in touch to do anything one way or the other.

[Asker]

I’m kinda mad. I accidentally texted him after almost 11months no contact. I was able to be nc for almost 11months

[FilmGuy93]

Wait, why does that make you mad? If you don't want to talk, just don't talk to him. There are a lot of people out there who aren't him.

[Asker]

If he thinks I did it on purpose..

[FilmGuy93]

Oh... Even then, if he responds just say that you meant to text someone else and that you've been trying to respect the no contact thing you had going. Who cares what he thinks?

People live busy lives. This stuff really isn't that big of a deal. If you messaged or called me and I didn't want to talk with you, I just wouldn't respond.

[Asker]

I deleted the text when I noticed it. It happened yesterday. So far he hasn’t reacted to it…

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah lol because it's just not that big of a deal.

[Asker]

Since he hasn’t reacted to it I guess he doesn’t care to talk to me lol?

[FilmGuy93]

Could be. It's way more likely that he actually just doesn't have any feeling one way or the other about it lmao

People are self absorbed and living busy lives. They're often oblivious to the world around them

[MementoMori777]

Unless there was a bad breakup then blocking is unnecessary

[Asker]

Actually it was quite bad. He rejected me. I removed him from instagram followers and he thought that it was ”drastic”. Then I messaged him on whatsapp and he left me on delivered. After that I never reached out to him. For my surprise I found out recently that I’m not blocked.

[MementoMori777]

Doesn't seem like a block situation still, not everyone hovers over the block button, I mean a toxic breakup lol

[Asker]

I was kinda clingy towards him after he rejected I called him once and texted him twice. Still he didn’t block me

[MementoMori777]

I guess maybe he just wants to continue playing these games

[Asker]

What kind of games?

[MementoMori777]

The back and forth distant shit

[MementoMori777]

Or maybe he just likes seeing that you keep reaching for him, like a boost of ego type of thing

[Asker]

I’m kinda mad. I accidentally texted after almost 11months no contact. I was able to be nc for almost 11months :/

[MementoMori777]

And you cracked on the 12th lol, don't stress it too hard, it doesn't matter, just don't keep giving him the satisfaction of him knowing you haven't gotten over him

[Asker]

What does ” The back and forth distant shit” means? Like on off relationship?

[Asker]

I deleted the text as soon as I noticed I sent it to him. Do you think he will think I send it on purpose?

[MementoMori777]

No like texting him and ignoring, leaving on read, all that crap

[Asker]

He was the one who was ignoring me last time

[MementoMori777]

And technically he will never guess that you send it by accident cause who does that, he will just think you are still thinking of him and send it and then deleted it because of whatever reason he might come up with

[Asker]

I don't know, is it good sign if he asks me about the deleted text?

[MementoMori777]

Good sign for what, what end game to you have planned with this?

[Asker]

If he wants to reconcile etc

[MementoMori777]

I see all ima say is that friendships are two sided as well.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[MementoMori777]

If he doesn't want too, it won't ever work out, it will all just be one sided, most of the time moving on is the most beneficial decision.

[Asker]

by the way do you think this is coincidence?
I one time told him that I think I saw him in public wearing black beanie but I wasn’t sure that it was him. Next day he changed his instagram dp to a picture him wearing a black beanie. I feel like it was because of what we were talking about.

now we haven’t talked for almost a year and he still has that same dp on his instagram and whatsapp.

[MementoMori777]

He did it on purpose I'm sure and this is what I mean about distant games, I was sure he participated as well because I'm sure something kept you going in it as well, it's these signs he's throwing at you

[Asker]

That he’s kept the same dp?

[MementoMori777]

Just all this indirect stuff, it's just childish games really

[Asker]

Why would he do that though?

[MementoMori777]

I don't play these childish games so I wouldn't have a clue tbh

[Asker]

Do you think he was hoping that I reach out to him?

[MementoMori777]

I don't know I say stop participating in the silly game and say how you feel, what happens after that all relies on his reply

[boggboss]

That or he never felt the need to block u

[Asker]

Actually it was quite bad breakup. He rejected me. I removed him from instagram followers and he thought that it was ”drastic”. Then I messaged him on whatsapp and he left me on delivered. After that I never reached out to him. For my surprise I found out recently that I’m not blocked.

[boggboss]

I wpuldnt have blocked u if I was him even him stating he thinks what u did was drastic would play into why he didn't block u as he dont see the point

[Asker]

I was afraid that he thinks I’m ”crazy”

[boggboss]

Thats possible he sees u that way again blocking u wouldn't effect him thinking thay

[Asker]

People would block if they think girl is clingy or something

[boggboss]

Some people yes others wouldn't he already seems to be the type of person that wouldn't because of how he reacted when u blocked him

[Asker]

by the way do you think this is coincidence?
I one time told him that I think I saw him in public wearing black beanie but I wasn’t sure that it was him. Next day he changed his instagram dp to a picture him wearing a black beanie. I feel like it was because of what we were talking about.

now we haven’t talked for almost a year and he still has that same dp on his instagram and whatsapp.

[boggboss]

If u think u saw him in it then yes I would say its coincidence

[Asker]

He confirmed that he was wearing black beanie. Then next day he changed his picture to hin wearing a black beanie

[boggboss]

Thats my point if he didn't wear it then posted a pick with it I would say yesh he did it because of you but its entirely possible he had that picture to put up but didn't yet before u asked

[Asker]

But what if he posted to let me see how he looks with the black beanie?

[boggboss]

Then what lol it wad a year ago why would this matter lol u are acting a bit crazy you know that right?

[Asker]

Yeah you’re right I’m reaching

[boggboss]

If he ain't blocked u and your this obsessed just message him otherwise move on lol

[Asker]

I’m kinda mad. I accidentally texted him after almost 11months no contact. I was able to be nc for almost 11months

[boggboss]

That means nothing tho if u still are thinking about him to the point of then messaging him as thats just standing still hoping he will come back not moving on

[Asker]

I’m kinda hoping that he will react to that deleted text

[boggboss]

So I sent him a text then deleted it and are still hoping he won't see u as crazy or attention seeking?

[Asker]

I don't know I’m kinda desperate tbh

[boggboss]

But why surly u can find someone else u understand how much of a bad look it is that after 11 months your still doing the same stuff whilst more likely then not hebhas been living his life

[Asker]

It could genuinely be accident. He can’t day for sure of I did it on purpose or not

[Asker]

Say*

[boggboss]

Lol if u showed signs of behavior like this before and now again I wouldn't doubt it lol

[Asker]

Earlier signs of what?

[boggboss]

Crazy like behaviour

[Asker]

Say in what way I have behaved crazy before?

[boggboss]

Blocking someone because they rejected you then messaging them is all impulsive behaviour that crazy people tend to do

[Asker]

I just removed him from my instagram followers. I never blocked him.

[boggboss]

The same thing applies it dont make a difference

[Nikki1989]

Why would you care?

[In_Trance]

Stop watching your ex

[riverrat3]

sees no reason for it

[Asker]

I’m kinda mad. I accidentally texted him after almost 11months no contact. I was able to be nc for almost 11months