Why would my ex block me then unblock me?

[foundry]

So its been 3 months since the break up,2months of fighting after then I went no contact.when I went no contact she sent me a msh that she is blocking me on Facebook I never replied.2 weeks later she has unblocked me.I sent her a message finally that I'm doing very well(I actually am) and that I'm okay with the break up and it was for the best as I'm doing so well now.I also said no hard feelings and we should put this behind us.

She did not reply though.I started talking to another girl and we got close until my ex started spreading rumors about me that finally chased my new girl away.I was told she hates me and wants nothing to do with me.its funny now since she unblocks me she's getting guys to write all over her Facebook wall

So why would my ex block me then unblock me?why would my ex get mad about a new girl?and why would she not reply to my msg

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Oh and her bio on Facebook has this posted. "Dear Tummy, sorry for all the butterflies. Dear Pillow, sorry for all the tears. Dear Heart, sorry for all the damage. Dear Brain, you were right"

[Anonymous]

When you went no-contact, it annoyed her, so she had to tell you she was blocking you (instead of just blocking you) trying to provoke a reaction. You did the right thing by not responding.

2 weeks later she unblocked you, because she still wasn't finished with you, and your no-contact was getting to her.

Then you sent her a message (bad move!) saying you were doing well. She actually wins that, because the content of the message doesn't matter so much as the fact that YOU messaged HER.

She didn't reply. of course not. Advantage her, I think.

Then when you started getting close to another girl, your ex sh*ts all over it. As they do. And yes, she's getting guys on her wall. You only know this because you look at her wall. Again, advantage her.

She does these things because she still has love/hate feelings for you. She wants to hurt you, and make you jealous. She wants to know that you still want her, but if you said you wanted her, she'd just take pleasure in shooting you down.

All of this could have been avoided if you'd just continued with the whole No Contact thing.

[foundry]

Well I do in a way miss her and still love her so I wouldn't mind getting her back but I'm also very good alone with out her...we faught a butt load after the break up and I don't think things should end so badly

[Opinion Owner]

You lost all chance of getting back with her, when you sent her a message.

[iXenomorph]

keep talking to her and you're doomed. Cut her out now. She's a cancer.

[oneconfusedlady]

Yikes! Sounds like she is lacking maturity on her part. You two really need some distance and let her work through her issues on her own. Maybe sometime in the future she will figure things out, but for now, I would put the power back in your hands and block her.

I will say, after my ex went into a relationship not long after he cut it off, I blocked him on Facebook. It was one of the best decisions I had made for me. I did call and leave him a message though that I was doing it for me and he shouldn't be concerned though. (Although he did freak a little when I deactivated my account for some time before and thought I blocked him, haha.)

[mahdy_10]

good move from you for the no contact actually the same is happening with me now but she was my best friend that both of us had feelings for each other but after she got back with her ex which i advised her not to do so because he dumped her the first time and blocked her however she ignored all my advises and got back to him again and then she lied to me on some other stuff which caused me to buy her a phone without her mother knowing about that but she told me that her mother knows about the phone and when her mother asked me i told her that she have a ohone that i brought to her and i it suprised me that her mother didn't know so she lied to me to buy her a phone just to talk to him any way we got into a fight for that and she blamed it on me then she blocked my on evrey thing as well then after two weeks she did the opposite and i do not know why actually bec she did not messege me yet. in your case u have a new girl u may still have fellings for her but i think she likes manipulation and she will hurt u again if u are already moved on and its going well with your new girl then forget about her its not worth it.