Guys, do you like rereading messages you sent to a girl you like?

[Anonymous]

I'm kind of curious... lol

[Leapfrog00]

Yeah, I read sent messages all the time. Sometimes I look at them and wonder, "Should I have said that," and others I think, "I hope she likes what I said."

I like reading her messages too though. I dated this one girl once and we'd send each other poetry, and I used to go back and read it, along with her messages. ::SIghs:: I miss that girl.

[Asker]

You should really text that girl

[Leapfrog00]

I wish I still had her number. Another girl who had a crush on me came in between us, and she might be mad at me now, maybe. I haven't seen her in a while and I miss her. She had the prettiest smile and she would hug me every time she saw me.

[TheMadLad]

When I was with my ex girlfriend, I used to delete the messages once I’m done talking to her because I don’t want to see the cringe things I said.

[Asker]

LOLL

[Simslover92]

I do it a lot tbh. Almost obsessively when it's someone I really like.

[Anonymous]

Maybe, sometimes I'll do it just to see if I could have said anything better. Or because sometimes she reacts differently than I anticipated. And I'll re-read it to see if she might have misunderstood my intent on something. To see if I didn't make something clear enough.

[TheThingALing]

I don't like it per se, but I find myself doing it sometimes

[summiter]

I have done it just to make sure I did not screw up the text. It can be normal.

[Jamie05rhs]

Only if we actually have a relationship. Otherwise there's no point; those words are meaningless.

[Justaguyagain]

Yeah, but now i dont do it anymore

[Asker]

Why not?

[Justaguyagain]

Because we barely talk now, so rereading messages is just sad

[MementoMori777]

Yea, it's just the way it is I guess 🤷🏽

[Asker]

Noted

[FilmGuy93]

Of course

[Wise4myage]

Sure, especially if we are sexting each other.

[gag37627]

I have done this a lot

[gag37627]

@Simslover92 it's weird I have said the same

[Simslover92]

@gag37627 yes it is. I thought I might be the only one who does this.

[gag37627]

Remember I was saying I keep touching this person's texts

I told you i mean everything I tell to someone unless I'm joking. If it's something good or bad about them, I don't hesitate. That's who I am

[Simslover92]

Yes I remember. And I know you do! That's what's so great about you!

[gag37627]

"Did you really even have feelings for me?" You asked at the wrong time. The time I was so angry with you.

I thought you were trying to say I was playing with you. If I wanted to do that, I wouldn't be telling you you are a bullet I dodge, right?

I never lied to you about my feelings for you. I just accepted that we are not going anywhere. Because I didn't want to get hurt by being with you. Since you never wanted me to leave, i made myself clear I would never like you. And I told that to you too.

And I didn't want to talk about feelings with you. Because it would hurt both of us. I thought being sexual as random people together would give us relief and it would be something we could enjoy. Still I didn't force you with anything. You were the one who didn't let it go. You could just let conversation to turn something else. I remember I was talking about the movie. Then you start to talk about it over and over again as always.

You telling about you were using me out of boredom made it worse. I knew you were doing that, it was the reason I could directly say I dodge you like a bullet. But hearing that made me so angry with you.

Also you always said, I'm being honest, I'm being honest, I'm being honest... to change every time. It was like I was on an emotional rollercoaster.

And I'm sorry. About yesterday. You made me so angry with you. Even you were telling you were laughing made it even worse. Because I never lied to you like you did to laugh at my feelings.

When I reread your last messages. I felt like I misunderstood you with my mental state that time.

[Summeroflove]

Well. It depends lol