He rejected me because our future plans don’t align but when I asked him what plans he said ”just in general they don’t align, why?

[Anonymous]

Was he lying and just making excuse?

[TheMadLad]

Respect this Man for being direct, He knows that he can’t change you and If he did then you would eventually get tired of it.

Sometimes it’s better not to argue about things.

[Asker]

Argue about what?

[Asker]

But I would’ve made compromise but he didn’t even tell me what it was

[TheMadLad]

Core Compromises are never useful on the long run.
Asking such questions always leads to an argument.

[Asker]

I feel it was just bullsh! t excuse or do you think he was genuine?

[TheMadLad]

No one here can answer that for you.
I told you what’s my prospective about this and that’s all I can do.

People really think differently so never take a comment here as an insight on your life.

I answered this because I understand that you want to talk about it but in the end isn’t only just a talk not a fact

[Asker]

You’re right , but as a guy do you think it it was genuine reason especially when he didn’t want to talk about what plans didn’t align

[TheMadLad]

I already told you everything, The rest is for you to judge.

[kylee2437]

Maybe it is, maybe it isn’t. I think the actual fact of it, is he doesn’t want to make it work and that’s a sign that you shouldn’t waste anymore time. If he’s lying, he has to live with that lie and that’s on him. Wish him well and onto the next

[spartan55]

Why isn't that a good enough answer? He actually didn't have to give you an answer at all.

[Asker]

But do you think it was genuine reason since he didn’t tell me what plan was dealbreaker for him

[spartan55]

Why wouldn't it be genuine?

[Asker]

Because he said it after the first date…

[Asker]

It could be just an excuse for he didn’t really find me attractive

[spartan55]

Okay, so what?

[spartan55]

Why does it matter at this point?

[Asker]

I just want to know do you it was probably an excuse?

[spartan55]

I have no idea.

[Danny_dan92]

He doesn’t like yours and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings saying it

[Asker]

by the way why does he still view my stories withing minutes of me posting them?

[Danny_dan92]

Finds you attractive. Doesn’t really care to make a move or try

[Asker]

He rejected me but still finds me attractive…?

[Asker]

What?

[Danny_dan92]

Correct. Dating is complicated now.

More and more men are becoming more hesitant to jump into a relationship

[Asker]

Why though? I thought he’s looking for serious relationship since he was asking how many kids I want

[Danny_dan92]

Things change

[Asker]

by the way I noticed that after long time he updated his story.. do you think he’s looking for attention?

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah maybe

[Asker]

From me?

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe I don't know. If you really want a direct answer to all your questions regarding him. You need to ask HIM

[Asker]

Can’t really do that since he rejected me

[Danny_dan92]

Ok, then there’s your answer

[In_Trance]

Because he feels your future plans don't align

[Asker]

But why didn’t he say exact plans when I asked him about it?

[In_Trance]

What does it matter? Move on

[Asker]

I just want to was he genuine about it

[In_Trance]

He's genuine about moving on without you, yes