There's a guy that I used to date and we where bestfriends before dating but then when we started dating he barely texted and was distant?

[Anonymous]

And then he broke up with me a couple days after getting together and still wanted to be friends and then we continued being bestfriends and we would always text and talk to eachother all the time just like before and then he kept telling me he still likes me but we didn't get back together

[kareenakapur]

Some times friends are better just staying friends. Maybe he wants to try again dating. Maybe he realized his mistakes. But there's a chance he didn't and you would have to go through heartbreak again and the possibility of ruining the friendship for good. Are you ready for that? Hard decision girly. Hope whatever happens is for the best <3

[Asker]

there's something I forgot to mention tho so technically the reason I asked this question is cause I've been curious for a while now but him and I aren't friends anymore a lot of things happened and he was mean to me and I was mean back and we even got in a physical fight but I think its gonna get better cause this morning I texted him to apologize and now he's being nice i think

[kareenakapur]

oh that is complicated. maybe he misses the friendship and thinks by asking to "get back together" you can be back at that stage.

[Asker]

Yeah I hope so cause we where friends again a couple weeks ago but then he became friends again with a friend that is actually cause of that friend that he broke up with me and the guy that he became friends with again I think he's controlling him or something cause right after they started being friends again he stopped being friends with me and started being mean again and his friend hates me so ya. But I hope him and I are gonna be friends again

[Anonymous]

Then maybe its best to just stay friends.

[Asker]

Yeah but in the same time him and I aren't friends anymore, but I apologized to him yesterday and I think him and I could start to be friends again

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I hope things work out for you.

[Asker]

Yeah thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.