Why can’t shorter men accept that most women don’t want to date them?

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This isn’t to bash anyone, i just wanna know why they can’t accept the facts and constantly complain. Most guys under 5’8 and even some 5’10 get all but hurt when they hear we have preferences too! That we want to feel small and protected when we are with a man! They expect us to lower our standards for men but they won’t lower there standards for women? How unfair is that?

inhua · Accepted Answer

most shorter men can accept that women won't date them. they instead end up getting gaslighted about their "bad personality" even though their height was actually holding them back to begin with

for those shorter men who can't accept it, it's because height is outside of their control and can't be changed and they have a right to be upset especially if they aren't allowed to have any preferences of their own. they didn't choose to be short. being fat they can change but being short, not so much

by "standards" one would assume the gentler/fairer sex would care more about personality than superficial factors like height but at least it's confirmed that superficial factors matter more than personality to women

Berethor · Accepted Answer

You also want strong genes for your children, that is the main biological reason, men are on average 5 inches than women, so it natural, but you really expect short men to like it?

OldWomanBySoul · Accepted Answer

I date a short dude in a heartbeat if I'm attracted to him (meaning he has a nice face and good personality), there a dude in my gym whose like 5-7 cm shorter than me and he's unrealistically attractive, never heard a word from his mouth and I don't think I'll ever actually have a chance with him but my god, dude is hot af

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

Unattractive women have fewer options so they frequently opt for shorter men.

Anonymous · Answer

How about we not group all “average” height men into one, because 5’8”-5’10” is the average height for a man, that is not short. Short, is like 5’6”.
I am a taller woman (5’9”) and when I go to the gym, most men in there are about my height or a little taller. They mostly all have girlfriends. There’s a few tall ones in there, but for the most part most men are my height.
The men complaining are literally just insecure men on the internet. They literally complain about any and everything.

Let me put it like this, there are some heavier women who get angry when men dislike heavier women. When in reality, most of my heavier friends have partners anyway.

Generalizing is annoying. I think we need to practice logging out of the internet and experiencing reality because the mentality is unhealthy.

TheThingALing · Answer

OP thinks she special apparently because she don't even need to try to get me men to approach her at the bar:

"I don’t need to “try” it happens all the time your just sad , I almost feel sorry"

you're a woman dummy! This is a shared experience among most women

DextroShade · Answer

Men aren't going to accept being told that they should die virgins because of something they have no control over. This is contrasted to the standards that men have for women which are entirely in their control: don't be fat, don't be a hoe, don't be a bitch.

BeMuse · Answer

For the same reason you can't accept that tall men don't want to date you.

boggboss · Answer

Meh most people getvupset when being told most people wouldn't want to date them for said reason for women it tends to be looks or weight and men it tends to be hight or dick size

Jazzy54 · Answer

Well, I’m 4’8. Therefore, even “short” men are tall to me. 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Wait until they realise that the whole desire to “feel small and protected” is literally a byproduct of patriarchal beliefs so it is literally their own fault.

Anonymous · Answer

@EmyyWolf It's comical that you accuse shorter men of being butt hurt when you yourself are the most butt hurt user in the history of GAG.

Anonymous · Answer

You can't blame a guy for trying. Besides not everyone's hope is going to be killed off just cause a lot of women want a man who is close to 6 foot.

Anonymous · Answer

That's why I identify as an incel. Instead I'm shamed for doing so.

Anonymous · Answer

This makes no sense.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Lol That's so mean! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

YaseminSirketikli · Answer

that is right

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