Should I text him?

[Anonymous]

Am I desperate if I reach out to him?

He’s a guy that I was chatting daily for 2 months. After out first date he said he doesn’t think we should continue because our life goals don’t align. I just miss him so much. We haven’t talked for 10 days now.

[summiter]

Ask him what he means by "life goals" and see where he is coming from

[Asker]

I did ask him what life plans didn’t align and he said ” just in general they don’t align”

[summiter]

I think he sounds confused about where he wants to go in life. Try one more text or call and if he does not replay you may have to move on. Do you think he is seeing someone else?

[Asker]

Why do you think he think he seems confused? I don’t know if he’s seeing someone

[summiter]

He just may not be ready for a serious relationship or maybe is scared on getting into one.

[Asker]

He seemed like he was looking for marriage

[spartan55]

Not only desperate, but crazy, unstable, unhinged. Dude is NOT INTERESTED.

[WhitneySnow]

Try texting him one more time. If he still says no then let it go.

[Asker]

What I should text him?

[WhitneySnow]

Tell him the truth. Tell him how much you miss him. See what he says. Maybe tell him why you think you and him would work out.

[Asker]

I’m afraid he already put me in incompatible category

[WhitneySnow]

You should at least tell him how you feel

[Asker]

by the way is it done deal that he’s made his mind. He said to me” I’m very sure that you’ll meet your soulmate and day” “ I really believe that you’ll meet more compatible person”

[Asker]

One day*

[WhitneySnow]

I think you still have a chance to persuade him to give you a chance. Try one more time. If that fails, you can move on with a clear heart.

[Asker]

Why do you think I still have a chance?

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t know for sure, but sometimes guys can be persuaded to give you another chance if you’re really sincere and honest about it. I think you should try again. But only once. If he still says no then let it go.

[Asker]

Do you think he just made an excuse about life goals and he just didn’t want to say he wasn’t attracted to me?

[WhitneySnow]

It’s possible. I’m not sure.

[Nikki1989]

No, he is just a guy. The world is full of them.

[sage2021]

No, he wouldn't be in to you. Don't leave scratchmarks as my brother would say. 🌺

[Asker]

I told him I want to move abroad in 10 years… (I was hoping we could move together abroad one day) I also told him I want to maybe study more in our local university and get better job. He on the other hand seemed like he wants children soon and big family. I did told him that I want big family too.

[KrakenAttackin]

He has found someone more interesting/attractive.

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[KrakenAttackin]

Because he ghosted you, duh.

[Asker]

I told him I want to move abroad in 10 years… (I was hoping we could move together abroad one day) I also told him I want to maybe study more in our local university and get better job. He on the other hand seemed like he wants children soon and big family. I did told him that I want big family too.

[Anonymous]

No, leave him alone and move on other guys.

[Asker]

Do you think he’ll miss me since were texting daily for 2 monthsv

[Opinion Owner]

He might, but so what? Don't hold onto something that's not their.

[mommymommymommy]

Time to move on hun

[Anonymous]

do it already geez

[Asker]

What do you mean?