We have just started talking a month ago he addresses me in a friendly way calling me dude, and now we haven’t talked for 3 days is he not interested?

[Anonymous]

Should I go text him? Or should I wait?

[arodriguez664]

You should find something else to do or hangout with friends. Don't worry about whether or not he texts you back. The less you care about the outcome the better off you'll be. I know it sounds counterproductive but people are attracted to someone who has an interesting life and high life satisfaction. The right person will make the effort. All relationships should strive to be equal.

[Daniela1982]

Friendly way? Who calls a girl a dude? If some guy called me dude I'd deck him. Maybe "dudess" is better?

[stepyo99]

Yeah, if you want to talk to him, then text him. Quit playing mind games. It's a two way street. You have to put in some effort yourself as well.

[Asker]

The problem is that I am feeling that I am the one who’s always putting effort

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well you have to keep doing it until you talk to him about it or you decide to move on. Playing mind games in the interim doesn't help any of you.

[stepyo99]

So talk to him about that then. Tell him how you feel that you're the only one putting in effort. If he starts reciprocating, then congrats you fixed the issue. If he doesn't, then you can move on to someone who puts in as much effort as you do.

[OlderAndWiser]

You just started talking or you just started texting a month ago? Big difference that leads to different outcomes.

[Asker]

We just started texting

[OlderAndWiser]

Texting is a way to hold back, not bond, and not feel any sense of responsibility to another person.

[MrCommodore]

Guys don't usually call girls "dude" unless he only thinks of her in a platonic way. I don't think he is interested

[In_Trance]

Did you call him?

[Asker]

Until now I did not, and I don’t think I will

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve never called “dude” by a guy。I suggest stop worrying about that guy

[Blueeyes81]

Think about words you use to let a guy know that you don't see him romantically. The same principle applies to men.

[Asker]

I understood the message, thank you

[Blueeyes81]

Then you already know he's not interested.

[Constantboredom]

I don’t like when guys call me dude, especially if I’m interested in them.

[sage2021]

Don't text him, and don't wait. Wait for what?

[spartan55]

Called you dude? Ugh what moron.

[spartan55]

If a guy calls you dude or fist bumps you why would you to date him anyway?

[Iron_Man]

Call him yourself now

[Asker]

Don’t you think its better for me to wait?

[Emanon25]

You can text him.

[Asker]

I wish he can take the approach instead
I really want to know if he’s interested or not at the first place

[Emanon25]

It would be better if he text you first.

[Asker]

So you think I should wait?

[Emanon25]

You can, to me I think if he wanted to talk to you he would’ve texted you

[Emanon25]

To make yourself comfortable just text him, he might be confused as well like you and waiting for you to text him.

[Wise4myage]

Be patient for now.

[shades777]

relax dude