If I have more than guy friend and I told to all of em that we can only be friends but only one guy friend didn't try to hit on me?

[Not_Ur_Babe]

Like I told him the first time, and he talks to me but never mentioned to me or tried to ask me out while other guys they agree but all of em tried to ask me out at least one time. So are all of them are not actually want to be friends with me or what?

[Anonymous]

It's possible that all of your guy friends genuinely want to be friends with you, but they may also be attracted to you and interested in pursuing a romantic relationship. It's natural for people to feel attracted to others, even if they have a platonic friendship.

The fact that one of your guy friends hasn't tried to ask you out may simply mean that he's not interested in a romantic relationship with you, or he may be respecting your wishes to remain friends. However, it's also possible that he's simply not as forward or confident as the other guys.

The best way to determine whether your guy friends truly value your friendship or are only interested in pursuing a romantic relationship is to observe their behavior and communication with you over time. If they consistently show interest in getting to know you as a person and enjoy spending time with you, even if they don't pursue a romantic relationship, it's likely that they value your friendship.

[Not_Ur_Babe]

Thank you!!!

[Anonymous]

Most guys are interested in girls as romantic or sexual partners, not as friends unless she's ugly.

[Not_Ur_Babe]

U sure?

[kylee2437]

I mean I can’t answer this 100% because you will never know the truth. For all you know that one guy had/has attraction to you but you already told him your boundaries of what you want to define the situation as. I’ve had guys act as friends and then 3-4 years later hit me up in a different context. You never know

[Not_Ur_Babe]

Thank u

[spartan55]

Why would they want to be friends?