I have seen many men who keeps saying they dont want a relation to the girl who loves them unconditionally. And once she leaves, remains upset and sad and cry in silence and act strong in front of their friends.
First of all there’s no such thing as loving someone unconditionally. Most people wouldn’t be w someone who is a complete slob, cheats, super obese, etc. there's conditions. Reasons why you chose him over someone else. As to your question about crying, well most men are conditioned that way. That’s why we try to act strong in front of our friends. Because it’s seen as a weakness, maybe not necessarily by your friends if they know what you’re going through based on their experience. But to yourself as well. That part of your brain that tells you “why the fuck you crying, you’re a damn man, man the fuck up. How can you be a man if you’re crying?” A lot of times men don’t know how to react to those situations cause we’ve never really been able to express those emotions growing up. I haven’t cried since I was 19, been about 26 years. Probably not healthy but it’s what has worked for me. A lot of women too tend to lose respect for a man when they see him crying. Some say they won’t, but to a degree they will depending on what he’s crying about. But many women can’t say exactly at what point of crying for whatever reason they’d lose respect for him. So as a man you don’t know. If I cry over my dog dying is she going to lose respect for me? Don’t know and most women don’t either till it’s too late.
Cause nobody will date a guy who is crying and can't deal with shit around them. Even guys won't have friends if we cry and give up often.
So as a guy we have be hard or act hard and single and horny and ready to mingle and fuck buddy. So we don't be actual lonely person.
I think some of everyone doesn’t want to allow someone else to see them sweat (cry). But if the guy/girl is literally pushing the guy/girl away like that then crying after, I guess they just wanted to see how much the person would take from em and continue to stick around. Some people will push you off the cliff but expect you to still latch on to a limb on the side. They never expect you to truly let go. The one crying has finally been HUMBLED
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Because he’s human, plus society wouldn’t accept that in a man, that will make him appear less masculine and a turn off for women, men are forced to be hard from childhood to adulthood to win in this world and no matter how hard a man is, only one certain type of woman can bring out his tender side
You can expect a man to express his emotions with a woman who will use his emotions against him as a weapon
Because no one cares, so might as well hold your head high with dignity.
If they cry on the inside how would you know?
Because that’s what men are conditioned by society to do. Emotional men are considered weak.
What you're asking here is why some guys act like girls. Because we're all human after all.
Everyone crys in a different way, some people cry but they don't let others see it, while some people will share their sad moments with others and some cry without shedding tears.
No tears ≠ Not Crying
'cry in silence'...😂😂😂😂 Yeah right
Such a lo_ser move lol.
Did you see that happen in real life?
Only simp do this...
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