Guys, do you like hearing when a woman tells you they feel safe when you’re around?

[Pinay_ako]

[Christoff92]

Had a girl that I knew walk with me late in the night after finishing her night shift at the supermarket around 10 pm. She didn't have to tell me. I knew 😊

[Pinay_ako]

My former co worker dropped me off at my apartment when our shift ended past midnight. He didn’t have to but he made me feel safe

[Christoff92]

That's awesome

[Christoff92]

Thanks for the MHO 😀

[honestanswersonly_]

Yea i do. Makes me feel like a gentalman

[EricSummer]

If she is my girlfriend that sounds nice.

However, if she is not my girlfriend, yet, and we are getting to know each other then it may not be so good. It is not an advantage if the woman is completely at ease around you. This could mean that you come off as harmless and you will only ever be just a friend. Usuallt, a woman likes to be challenged a bit so that she has to decide how far she wants to go with you.

Depends on the situation though. If in a crowd she holds close to you and tells you how safe she feels with you that's again a good sign.

[ChiTown33]

I think any guy likes to hear that. But the notion is always funny to me. I remember back in the day between high school and college I used to work at BK. And the general manager always asked me to hang around after close to escort our night manager to her car because she had the day deposit. I was just a stupid kid that was given a free meal for doing so.😂 But they asked me because i was the biggest guy there. The perception was no one would mess with a guy my size. But I'm not mean or tough. I'm a big ol teddy bear. So while I would protect any woman. The notion is always funny to me that any would see me as a "protector". 😂

[ObscuredBeyond]

Thing is, does she mean it as in "I trust you'll guard me from others," or does she mean it as in "I trust that you're not gonna do anything stupid to / with me"? Because I almost never hear those words.

Conversely, when she tells me for no clear reason "I DON'T feel safe around you," and there's no immediate danger, I assume she means to imply that I'm the danger. Which, if I had no malicious intent, then her saying that is quite insulting.

If I walk away in disgust, ensuring she knows that she crossed a line, and she's not only not sorry, but sends someone else after me to harass me over it, then I go from mildly offended to boiling over in anger. Especially if whomever she sends approaches me in a threatening manner! Because then, her hypocrisy knows no bounds.

[jennifer_bloom]

People think men are supposed to protect women, but my pastor told me at church, women protect the man's heart. While the man protects the woman's body and material needs. There is also over lap because you don't want a man that does not care about your feelings and you don't want a woman who doesn't do house work etc..

[DiegoO]

Ah.. One of the reasons I decided to ended my LDR. I just couldn't protect my LD ex. It was something that made me angry and sad at times.

She do use to tell me that she felt in peace with me, but never did she said she felt protected. That bothers me up to this day, I mean not her feelings, but the incapacity I had to be actually at her side and not stick to a screen.

[msc545]

Meh don't care unless they expect stupid heroics. My ex had this nasty trick when we were together of publicly provoking other men to see if she could get me into a fight. It never worked but it was irritating as hell and very dangerous.

[Pinay_ako]

No not that kind. I just like the thought of having a man around to protect me makes me feel safe. That’s if the man is also a good one… not an abusive one

[Andres77]

That’s the best compliment I’ve ever been given… by ex-girlfriend’s ex-wife, and my daughters

[Pinay_ako]

Why do you feel this way?

[Andres77]

If they feel safe, then they can be themselves, and what more freedom could we possibly hope for then to be ourselves with no threats, no insecurities , completely relaxed because you know that someone is never gonna let anything happen to them when they’re with you

[nolabels]

You bet.

Me big strong man.
Protect mate.

👍😊

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure! It's nice to know that they look up to you and trust you as much as they do.

[DextroShade]

My wife tells me that all the time and I do like to hear it; if she didn't feel safe with me around it would be a huge problem.

[Grond21]

I love that a lot. Especially now that I understand which she really means.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'll be Indifferent. I wouldn't feel nothing. My ego isn't 💩 to where I need to hear that to feel good about myself.

[RavVid]

Yes it does give a buzz. It could be a female pre-req or it could be initial bs like when they compliment your clothing choices. Never really known which.

[Sparkie460]

If a woman feels safe around me then I'm sending good vibes and I'm doing something right

[Tstrbrainer]

Generally it's a nice thing to hear unless I'm trying to stay away from that woman.

But I absolutely love it when my relatives say it

[BungusHighFivePizza]

It kind of tempts me to smack her around a bit just to throw her off.

[Pinay_ako]

Wow 😂 what

[BLP11520]

Of course, even older i can still fight. I own guns and will use them too.

[runnerboy]

It has niot happened to me. But to me it might mean they do not want to have sex or fool around with me.

[richardcory]

I like it when its a sign of trust in me.

[spartan55]

Yes, it is definitely appreciated.