Guys, do you like hearing when a woman tells you they feel safe when you’re around?

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Christoff92 · Accepted Answer

Had a girl that I knew walk with me late in the night after finishing her night shift at the supermarket around 10 pm. She didn't have to tell me. I knew 😊

honestanswersonly_ · Accepted Answer

Yea i do. Makes me feel like a gentalman

EricSummer · Answer

If she is my girlfriend that sounds nice.

However, if she is not my girlfriend, yet, and we are getting to know each other then it may not be so good. It is not an advantage if the woman is completely at ease around you. This could mean that you come off as harmless and you will only ever be just a friend. Usuallt, a woman likes to be challenged a bit so that she has to decide how far she wants to go with you.

Depends on the situation though. If in a crowd she holds close to you and tells you how safe she feels with you that's again a good sign.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I think any guy likes to hear that. But the notion is always funny to me. I remember back in the day between high school and college I used to work at BK. And the general manager always asked me to hang around after close to escort our night manager to her car because she had the day deposit. I was just a stupid kid that was given a free meal for doing so.😂 But they asked me because i was the biggest guy there. The perception was no one would mess with a guy my size. But I'm not mean or tough. I'm a big ol teddy bear. So while I would protect any woman. The notion is always funny to me that any would see me as a "protector". 😂

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Thing is, does she mean it as in "I trust you'll guard me from others," or does she mean it as in "I trust that you're not gonna do anything stupid to / with me"? Because I almost never hear those words.

Conversely, when she tells me for no clear reason "I DON'T feel safe around you," and there's no immediate danger, I assume she means to imply that I'm the danger. Which, if I had no malicious intent, then her saying that is quite insulting.

If I walk away in disgust, ensuring she knows that she crossed a line, and she's not only not sorry, but sends someone else after me to harass me over it, then I go from mildly offended to boiling over in anger. Especially if whomever she sends approaches me in a threatening manner! Because then, her hypocrisy knows no bounds.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

People think men are supposed to protect women, but my pastor told me at church, women protect the man's heart. While the man protects the woman's body and material needs. There is also over lap because you don't want a man that does not care about your feelings and you don't want a woman who doesn't do house work etc..

DiegoO · Answer

Ah.. One of the reasons I decided to ended my LDR. I just couldn't protect my LD ex. It was something that made me angry and sad at times.

She do use to tell me that she felt in peace with me, but never did she said she felt protected. That bothers me up to this day, I mean not her feelings, but the incapacity I had to be actually at her side and not stick to a screen.

msc545 · Answer

Meh don't care unless they expect stupid heroics. My ex had this nasty trick when we were together of publicly provoking other men to see if she could get me into a fight. It never worked but it was irritating as hell and very dangerous.

Andres77 · Answer

That’s the best compliment I’ve ever been given… by ex-girlfriend’s ex-wife, and my daughters

nolabels · Answer

You bet. Me big strong man. Protect mate. 👍😊

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Sure! It's nice to know that they look up to you and trust you as much as they do.

DextroShade · Answer

My wife tells me that all the time and I do like to hear it; if she didn't feel safe with me around it would be a huge problem.

Grond21 · Answer

I love that a lot. Especially now that I understand which she really means.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I'll be Indifferent. I wouldn't feel nothing. My ego isn't 💩 to where I need to hear that to feel good about myself.

RavVid · Answer

Yes it does give a buzz. It could be a female pre-req or it could be initial bs like when they compliment your clothing choices. Never really known which.

Sparkie460 · Answer

If a woman feels safe around me then I'm sending good vibes and I'm doing something right

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Generally it's a nice thing to hear unless I'm trying to stay away from that woman.  But I absolutely love it when my relatives say it

BungusHighFivePizza · Answer

It kind of tempts me to smack her around a bit just to throw her off.

BLP11520 · Answer

Of course, even older i can still fight. I own guns and will use them too.

runnerboy · Answer

It has niot happened to me. But to me it might mean they do not want to have sex or fool around with me.

richardcory · Answer

I like it when its a sign of trust in me.

spartan55 · Answer

Yes, it is definitely appreciated.

exitseven · Answer

I guess it would be okay.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

It's a very nice thing to hear.

Nerdvana · Answer

Yes, I would love that.

clampfan101 · Answer

I would be flattered.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Yes. It means we're making a deeper connection.

OddBeMe · Answer

Sure I would imagine anyone liking that.

Fuentes · Answer

I'm indifferent

Amur8711 · Answer

Of course! Thats is a good compliment ☺️

SnowedIn · Answer

Yes.

talka20 · Answer

Ohhh definitely 💯💯

Fireguy17 · Answer

yeppers.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Yes.

PointTaken · Answer

Yes I do.

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

dragoblack · Answer

Absolutely

nateyoder23 · Answer

Yes I do.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Ewwww

mommymommymommy · Answer

Unfortunately

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