He told me he doesn't love me but these instances confuse me. Any help?

[Anonymous]

He told me he doesn't love me but these instances confuse me.

1. Me talking to people late at night upsets him.

2. When I go out alone at nights, he keeps asking why I am in that place at that time

3. He never helps me in situations others can help, but is always willing to travel miles when I am sick/upset.

4. Once he cancelled date but came all the way miles in the noon sun,40 degrees in a motor cycle to look at me from his balcony (I had to cross his home to reach mine) but won't talk

5. Keeps asking for sex, but bails out last moment

6. Got way too uncomfortable when I went on dates

7. Doesn't like me hanging out with boys or making out

8. Expects me to worry about him

9. His friends keep talking about him to me now that I don't talk to him.

[noemiii]

Dealt with a guy exactly like this. He’s a textbook narcissist and there’s no winning with a guy like that. They’ll say they don’t want anything but get jealous when you talk to other people and get other people to keep up with you. He doesn’t really love you, no. He just likes the control he has (or had) over you.
Just go no contact. There is literally nothing healthy to come from a relationship with a man like that because he is incapable of understanding compassion even if you poured your heart to him, you’ll never be good enough.

[RespectfulGuy]

He's a controlling freak.

He doesn't love you but don't want you to find love.

Run, block him, and never again respond to him in any way. If he uses a different number, just hang up.

And be free. Find yourself a guy who loves you and kept saying it to you.

[spartan55]

He sounds like a weird ass dude, is he really your only option?