Why am I such a useless man?

[Willlovewinintheend]

An overly emotional and weak man such as myself can never be loved by a woman. I am almost 30 and no one can love me.

[MrOracle]

You have some issues from your past that you need to address. Imagine getting a compound fracture in your leg, and never getting medical treatment for it. You would never heal probably and you would be lucky not to be confined to a wheelchair, yet with proper treatment (which, yes, would be painful, uncomfortable, and expensive), you could have full function again.

It's probably also the case that you worry far too much about what everyone thinks about you. One of the secrets to life is that you have a handful of people who really matter - probably your parents, a few close friends, and a mentor or two. Those are the only people whose opinions of you should really matter. Treat everyone else politely (don't be an asshole for no reason), but don't spend time and energy worrying what they think about you. And you will learn that by not caring what people think about you, those same people will think more highly about you. It seems backwards, but it's true.

[grega239]

Well stop being emotional. Its not hard.

[Anonymous]

That sucks.