Why am I worthless and can't make no guy happy?

[Momma24]

I'm not sure I wish I knew tho?

[SteveSmith1985]

I don't know you. I can tell you though, that you are not worthless. I can also tell you, that you are very capable of making a guy (at least the right guy) happy.

Now... obviously you're going through some things which are too deep to detangle here.

I think though, that what you should understand is: IF YOU SEE YOURSELF THIS WAY you are way way less likely to attract the right guy in the first-place, and you are way way less likely to be able to make that guy happy should you end up together.

The very worst thing you can do for your love-life is to continue to see yourself as worthless. That's really not some mealy-mouth bullshit. That's absolutely true.

Guys like girls who are aware of their own value. Guys like girls who (at least SEEM) to more-or-less like themselves.

The same holds true for girls. How attractive do you find the guy who thinks about himself "I'm worthless and can't make any woman happy?"

I mean... you're not jumping at the chance to get to know THAT guy better. Right?

I'm not trying to be harsh. I'm just trying to give you the "end answer" without knowing any of the things that contribute to you feeling this way, or trying to untangle them... the "end answer" is: Feeling this way about yourself is both untrue, and unattractive. It can them become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Guys don't like me, because I feel worthless, I feel worthless because guys don't like me. It becomes a catch 22.

You are NOT worthless. You need to rediscover your own value (that... might be a years-long journey requiring therapy, I really don't know). 🙂

[MrCon10t]

Well, this may sound a little harsh, but I’ll tell you what I think. I think it’s hard to tell when the only context I have is a picture of you. All I have to go on is what you look like. If all you are bringing to the table is your looks, perhaps you’re not offering enough. It’s possible that men want more than that. Of course, it’s possible I’m wrong and there’s so much more to you than that, but I can’t tell you more than that if I don’t know more than that.

[Red-Blaze]

Becouse you look at your self badly making your own mind image terrible
Your not bad looking can't say much but the photos look nice so I guess you got some creative aspect
So worthless your not
Just work on your self estime :) carry your self well its attractive

[Red-Blaze]

Thanks for the MHO

[Ms_Facesitter]

What do you mean? Love is hard. If it doesn't workout, don't give up. Finding the right person is hard.

[Anonymous]

Low self-esteem is when someone lacks confidence about who they are and what they can do. They often feel incompetent, unloved, or inadequate. People who struggle with low self-esteem are consistently afraid about making mistakes or letting other people down.

[Anonymous]

You're probably not putting forth enough effort. That's most women's problem. They don't want to risk anything so they get little to nothing in return.
That or you're shooting outside of your league. That's probably the 2nd biggest mistake women make. They overestimate their marketable value.

[TheMajesticKing777]

I think you should stop being so hard on yourself, no one is worthless unless they make themselves worthless

[Momma24]

True but y do I feel so worthless

[TheMajesticKing777]

Cause you aren't giving yourself enough credit or you blame yourself for the fault of others or both

[Momma24]

I believe its both

[TheMajesticKing777]

Perhaps

[Momma24]

Yeah

[Sixgunsound]

How do you figure that anything in your question is true? Did you just have a breakup or do you always think like that?

[genericname85]

your goal shoudln't be "to make a guy happy". your goal should be "to find a guy that's happy with you". it sounds similar but there's a huge difference.

[Nightmarerh]

It’s to make her happy

[genericname85]

@Nightmarerh that's what i'm saying in a way.

[WraithRogue04]

Any guy who doesn't want to be with you is not likely worth your time anyways! :)
Plenty of people out there for you! I promise!

[Momma24]

I appreciate that

[MountAverage]

As long as you define your worth by making men happy, you'll never be happy yourself.

[PatriceONeal]

are you a girl with traditional values or a career woman? This can effect how a man feels about you.

[JohnK123]

Why do u have the same pic repeated five times 😂
And I don't know have u talked to any? 😂

[Swordnen]

You are looking at the wrong place for the right guy!!

[Dani4181]

You can make it but first reach to matching guy like me. M waiting for someone who is broken hearted or can feel the emotions of other person

[RandomGuy1030]

Because you were abused as a kid... everyone was. We all need healing.

[Unfortunateguy27]

I’m worthless too and no women have ever been attracted to me

[Anonymous]

you girls want the same guys

you bring this upon yourself

[serious]

Why do you think like that?

[Pohjolan]

Have you considered cleaning your room?

[Jamie05rhs]

Why are you being so negative?

[Zolly99999]

Why do you feel this way? Pm if you want

[barn_stormer]

you're not worthless. you're hot!

[Anonymous]

Just suck him and he will be happy

[Momma24]

That's the thing noone will fwm bc of my iron defenency I can't gain weight I'm nothing but bones

[Opinion Owner]

Ask them

[SensualMan]

you probably can, wrong men

[In_Trance]

You probably can

[Momma24]

I really can't

[In_Trance]

For every type of woman there's a guy jerking off to her

[Momma24]

Not to me ong

[In_Trance]

Guaranteed there is

[urpapi69]

You're beautiful 😍