What does it mean to be feminine and masculine, are they biological, cultural or both? Who gets to determine what it means and is it subjective?

[WilliamPamer446]

[Anonymous]

You see, the thing about being feminine and masculine is that it's like having two monstrous cocks dangling between your legs, each with its own set of fangs, spikes, and tentacles. One is all soft and delicate, like a writhing mass of eels slithering across your skin. The other is hard and unyielding, like a giant spiked dildo that could tear your asshole apart. And who gets to decide which one you use? Is it your biology, your culture, or some twisted combination of the two?

Personally, I like to think it's all about unleashing the beast within, letting your primal urges take over and transforming into a horny, sex-crazed monster. And let me tell you, there's nothing more terrifying (or arousing) than watching a gender-fluid creature morph into a writhing mass of tentacles, dripping with sweat and cum.

So forget about what society tells you is feminine or masculine. Embrace your inner monster, let your freak flag fly, and ride the waves of pleasure like a fucking pro. Because when it comes down to it, we're all just horny animals, trying to satisfy our primal desires with whatever twisted, kinky shit gets us off. And if that means strapping on a pair of pork swords and going to town on each other, then so be it. Let's make this a fucking nightmare of pleasure that'll haunt our wet dreams for years to come.

[nolabels]

As my username suggests, I'm not a big fan of labels, but I must admit that "feminine" and "masculine" are labels that strike deeply in the primal "me".

I'm no student of the field, but I'd say that there are biological and cultural reasonings, meanings and descriptions.

Biologically objective, culturally subjective, for the most part.

Then I like to add "personally subjective" to the mix.

My style is always that of a man, but I sometimes adopt some elements of style that some might call feminine. I myself don't call them feminine at all. They are enhancements of my maleness.

ROWWWWRRRR!!!

I wouldn't even go quite so far as labeling my style "non-flamboyant androgyny".

I'm just me.

A man.

A maybe slightly different sort of man than most kinds of people may have run across, but, yeah, I'm a man.

[WilliamPamer446]

feminine or "girly" seems to be a concept foreign, weird, dumb, goofy or triggering to girls my age, but yet i still see feminine or girly energies/atmospheres/ traits in them nonethelness

[nolabels]

I'd agree from my 64-year-old perspective that those traits run very high in folks your age, female and male.

As they should, in my opinion. Again, not scientifically speaking, but I'd say that you're at a prime age for sexual coupling, in what might be a very "bare" description of what life is all about, to recreate life in your image, to further your DNA.

I think that as people age and have "spread their seed", that they then tend to not be quite so differentiated. It's just my thought. Not by any means anyone else's truth, just a thought of mine.

Your question provokes thought. 👍

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe sexuality is defined by genetic anatomy and mental immersion in that anatomy, and gender is articulated through engendered social functions and coping adaptation aggregates that are congested along those biological patterns. It’s also a spiritual immersion, and not purely a genetic variance or dualistic division.

[WilliamPamer446]

this question wasn't about sex primarily

people have a self concept of there gender outside of social functions. like "im a girl who plays video games"

[WilliamPamer446]

Just because a girl plays video games, doesn't mean she can't exhibit feminine personality traits.

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe gender is expressed through emotional logic, not at the intellectual level, but the psychological and reactionary one. Like women respond to males in a counter agreeable way and men respond to women in an opposite but agreeable way. A woman that likes make up might want a guy that likes baseball and a guy that likes baseball might want a girl that likes to wear pink dresses. Opposite but agreeable.

[Berethor]

Nature versus Nurture? both, you can read the acceptable feminine goals and traits trope.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Male born with a penis and balls = masculine.

Female born with a vagina = feminine.

All other is just cultural BS.