sunshineglow | 62 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Xper 5
1 mo
If associated with two genders:
* Feminine * : Gentle, nurturing, caring, elegant, intuitive, multitasking, cute, romantic, playful, fun, timid, slower but steadier energy, can think and feel in the same time, supporting others, less focused on self and more on others to feel like serving others well, more ethereal, more philosophical, ambitious with a wish that her work brings meaning, inspiration and the felling of finding a sense and purpose in life, more spiritual, more sensual, observational, seeks to understand roots, causes and effects of a problem
* Masculine * : Providing, protecting, posing, analitical, focused on one task and executing it, quicker but rather periodical energy, mostly unable or unwilling to both feel and think in the same time, leading others, more focused on self in order to feel like serving others well, more physical, more concrete and focused on material world and achievements, ambitious that his work brings fame and success and material /financial security and prizes, more earthly, more sexual, doing and executing, seeks to fix the problem - - - - - - - - - - - - - In terms of effeminate men, they are nowadays rather associated with cute K-pop idols who might wear blond or pink, cute or somewhat vamp hairstyles, lip gloss, accentuated fashion pieces, and have rather smooth, warm, rather not deep voice. - - - - - - - - - - - - Idea of masculine woman would be, Physically very strong, has muscles, knows martial arts or plays a rough sport such as rugby, tall, not elegant, never wears skirt or dress, doesn't know how to do make up, doesn't have social skills but performs well on job, doesn't have high emotional intelligence, doesn't like babies or children, is not having active motherly instinct (which might indicate lack of female hormones), doesn't know how to use intuition and only relies on data, is not in touch with her creative side, too judgmental of, but cold and uninterested in feelings of others. - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
We all need and have some masculine and feminine parts of ourselves. We need to get mature enough to make ourself able to be developed appropriately in both sides of our nature. And prevalent will be one. Usually the natural one (the same as one's gender is)
Example of a well rounded male person:
Providing, protecting, able to lead, But able to have emotional intelligence and understanding of others' feelings and social dynamics, Intuition is not unknown to him, Creative, doing and executing tasks, fixing problems, but having work and family life balance and not being completely focused on career and money, but also inner development and becoming a better person to serve better and be better family member and a friend.
Example of well rounded female person:
Nurturing, multitasking, knows how to both understand the problem and potentially fix it, even if not by herself, but through team building and team leading, understands others, but makes clear bounderies of what is acceptable and respectful behaviour she can accept, focused, good analytical skills, but knows when to rely on intuition, balanced energy, ambitious pursuing either career or passion, both creative and logical, in touch with gentle, playful, romantic and fun side of self while also capable to pose detached and remain to be professional.
i have some of those feminine traits in me. I like to nurture as well. But i think because I was just never nurtured by anyone so i just long to be held and have the excuse to. Maybe that's all it is. And the romance part too. Never really having love like that by many people. And most people that did love me I was not in close contact with. Usually I would see my grandfather sundays. Sometimes my grandmother. Probably like 5 times a year. My aunt was about the same. Dad worked 80 hours a week. So really I'm just lonely I think. But i dont want to have to be some hard ass right now. I actually can be but that's only when I'm in a healthier state of mind. When I am with a woman that makes me her center I can really shine as a man. Maybe it was my upbringing but what I really think it is is that every man deep down needs a woman, his woman. And I dont think that any amount of bs being spouted on the net is going to change that because this is apart of who we are.
@t-8900 you are well rounded. I already stated it's more progressive to be in touch with emotional intelligence and sensitive, nurturing side of self, for a man. I don't see why you would see that as negative. Your past events have left you feel neglected, but they enabled you from within, to search those things inside of yourself when you couldn't count on other people. So your ability to be supportive developed as a survival skill. I think that's awesome. And I agree most people do need a partner to feel balanced. Even most perfectly raised people feel lonely and need a partner and the feeling of establishment a safe and stable relationship gives.
ChrisMaster69 | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master
1 mo
Neither of those.
it’s a really stupid stereotype, also is just yet another thing guys hurt other guys with.
Also this stupid link that says effeminate means they are gay, which is stupid at some many levels. If anything the muscle guy is more likely to be gay, (however sexuality does not work like that).
Both masculine and feminine are really stupid.
We had a Safety Equipment fitter on the Squadron, they look after flying suits, life rafts and the ejection seat parachutes and other kit. This guy was brilliant with a sewing machine and would take in stuff like sorting curtains etc. He could also make clothes etc, quite a few wives had dresses made by him…
sounds Uber effeminate?
he was 6’6 and about 5ft across the shoulders, he was originally in the Royal Marines with combat in Falklands etc, he still did Iron Man type events and was straight.
A well rounded person should be able to move around both stereotypes.
LegendaryIcon | 239 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Xper 6
1 mo
Masculine is supposedly being "strong" and feminine is supposedly being "weak". At least that's how republicans see it. They would never want a woman president, and look at trump the "strong man", right? (funny thing is, he's pathetically weak)
Alpha runs the show. Often from behind the scenes. Betas think they are hot shot alpha when half the time they are just muscle thugs for some geek alpha running the business from back stage
Having a brunch doesn’t make you a pussy if somebody came in and started shooting a place and you didn’t put your body in the way of saving your lady friends that’s when you are a pussy
Holding the door open is a polite thing to do it’s it doesn’t mean your not masculine, there really not a good everyday example that makes or breaks masculinity. It more like doing what you need to do to help people in your community or being honorable in your actions.
I wasn't saying anything about attraction and yes everyone is different. But in general women have more estrogen because they can create life, basically their bodies can produce a baby. While men have more muscle mass compared to women, While everyone do have both estrogen and testosterone, us men produce more testosterone compared to you women, while you women produce more estrogen compared to us men.
Nothing wrong with that as you can from my GAG username I am a huge FF fan, and yes I definitely love Tifa and Yuna from Final Fantasy. Actually there are a lot of hot and interesting women in the Final Fantasy games
Is he your favorite video game character? Also how you think the second game of The Remake will turn out? I bet the gang will eventually meet Yuffee. But I wonder how they will handle Zack coming back to life.
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