Why would he say to stop calling him names like babe and to not text him until he texts me?

[Anonymous]

We are on a break (he wants to be) but I keep breaking it lol and then he says he misses me lol. but now he said to not message him until he messages me and then he said to not call him names like babe. why. (

Nothing wrong with us in general just that he has feelings for his ex and has feelings for me and is confused. We have been talking for 2 months.

[Ironic_Method]

Sounds like he's with another girl and doesn't want her to find out he has a not-gf.

[Asker]

yikes : (( yeah he said he saw his ex and he was so sorry he still has feelings for her. Then he went on to say how he loved talking to me. I was like wait so you dont like me like that though right. And he was like no I do but Im not over someone else so I can't give it my all. Im conf. I keep telling him I can give him time. and basically he says he needs time time and needed this break and will stop talking to her too and be careful who he spends his time with because he has stuff clouding it rn. I don't know what this means lol. but so far everyone thinks he's with her. I don't know the delulu in me was thinking he'd stick to his word.

[spartan55]

Another example of why 'the talking stage' is retarded.

[Asker]

yeah lets just date ugh

[spartan55]

I don't see people questioning it. Seems like a stall tactic to me.

[Howdyhey]

It sounds like he's getting back with his ex...

[Asker]

then. why does he miss me why is he even putting us on a break.

[Howdyhey]

I don't know, this would be my guess is that he is with another woman and he doesn't want her to go through his text by snooping and reading someone calling him babe. I could be way wrong though. Two months isn't a long time. I'd just forget about him and not be placed on the back burner. Good luck.

[spartan55]

@asker
Him saying he misses you means a whole lot of nothing. We say that type of because we know you'll fall for it. After two months come on... it's bullshit. Why did you accept a break anyway? How can go on a break when you are only in the 'talking stage' This all sounds ridiculous from the outside looking in.

[Asker]

@spartan55 lol ur right. We sexted a lot and were going to meet though soon probably going to fuck. Im moving to the apt next to him lol. Ur right 2 months is nothing ugh im stupid but in LOVEEEE.

[Asker]

facetimed and talked every day

[spartan55]

Ugh, you aren't in love, you haven't even met him yet! Listen to yourself.

[Asker]

@spartan55

lollll you're right. oh god.

[Asker]

I think im still in love but prob to some fantasy man I have in my head

[Howdyhey]

🤣 oh my. Have you thought about a hobby?
Yeah I'd just delete his number or whatever you talk to him on

[Asker]

lol on insta text snap ugh. lol I should get a hobby oh god. am I going crazy guys. I haven't met the man. He said we can't meet will make things too hard lol right before this break. but then he says he has so many feelings for me but not fair that he's stuck on someone else and can't give it his all.

[Asker]

he's too sexy ugh and I just got over my ex. and now we are neighbors (unintentionally but coincidence) I might kill his ex if he gets back together with her and I have to see her everyday. oh god.

[Howdyhey]

You definitely don't want to move near this guy. It will be a living nightmare every single day.

[Asker]

what can I do? only one apartment complex in our small town. :((( His ex is long distance by the way. But my school put me there right next to him. : ( I want him so bad. But you guys are right he's prob getting back together with her.