Guys, Will my boyfriend think less of me I sleep with him? He knows I’m a virgin and he’s not. But I worry about the Madonna Whore complex?

[Anonymous]

[Berethor]

Madonna-Whore Complex is usually about Other Guys, but Waiting Until Marriage is Safer.

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/why_buy_the_cow_when_you_can_get_the_milk_for_free

[_Maya_]

If he cares about you then he isn't going to think less of you. If he doesn't respect you then he might consider it a conquest. I am guessing though that you are with him because he does care and respect you. It is up to you though. It sounds like you are unsure of yourself and what you should do. If you have an uncertainty, then wait. What is a little more time anyhow? You made it this long. Wait for the right moment so that it is special.

[gothbxtch]

it’s that breakfast club quote thing. “if you don’t, you’re a prude. if you do, you’re a slut.” if your boyfriend isn’t a total ass, he won’t think any less of you. if he does, he’s not worth your time.

[gothbxtch]

thank you!

[DarkWinterNights]

I wouldn’t sleep with him until at the very least you’re in a committed long term relationship. Especially if you’re a virgin. I was in a hurry to lose mine because I thought people would judge me, but I regret losing it when I did. I knew it was never going to turn into anything and it was meaningless. I’ve basically abstained since. If I ever meet the right person I still want it to be something special.

[strateguy632]

if you are ready go with your heart. with protection. dont worry about respect , unless he pressures you to do it, then dump the bossy guy.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

If he loves and cares for you, he's not going to think anything less of you when you have sex with him for the first time.

[boggboss]

Lol if he does then clearly u are with a shitty guy

[Anonymous]

He will have conquered you and add to his own bragging rites. If you think he has that tendency for his pride to rise, he will eventually treat you like meat.

[In_Trance]

he won't