I had some stripper (current and former) friends before. They were just friends, and no sex was had. Just because they are strippers doesn't mean they sleep with everyone they meet, and in fact, strippers tend to want to be friends with people who are able to see them for something OTHER THAN their sexual side - and tend to not be interested in people who only see their sexual side (they view those people as "marks", just like their strip club customers).
Obviously, individual situations are different, but it's really not the end of the world.
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Kidding aside I think it's shallow in your part. Its just a friend. Unfortunately I have some friends that don't have legal jobs let alone a stripper and they are still my friends. I don't approve of it but they have to do what they gotta do.
What does it say? That he doesn't judge a person by there proffesion? What you need to do is get to know her, find out how they became friends and not decide to destroy a relationship on something as trivial as this. Talk to him, talk to her. Maybe you will find that she is a scummy person and so is he, maybe you will find that she is a good person and so is he. Either way judging them with out giving them the chance to prove there character says more about you then them.
Why? Do you think strippers where born and raised in a strip club? Also go to a strip club and you will see its not what you think. They are rather sad places in my opinion where men pay women ten dollars to have said women pretend to be attracted to them for five minutes.(I was dragged their for a bachelore party) This sounds a lot more to do with you then him. Are you afraid he is cheating on you? Do you not feel like your attractive enough? To judge someone on this seems kind of extreme. I am not saying its a classy job but existing in a room naked while getting a hell of a lot of money or working fast food, well I have man boobs, sign me up. Talk to them you are reducing this women down to one thing and refusing to acknowledge her as more than just a stripper. If
I had a colleague who was a stripper before she started working in the same department where I was. My girlfriend knew and wasn't worried by it even though we had work functions and this girl would show off some moves. My girlfriend would ask abut her and even became really good friends with her. Maybe you could do that. Get to know her as a person... you'll either confirm your suspicions, or be pleasantly surprised that there's nothing to worry about...
What's wrong with having a stripper as a FRIEND?
If anything if he can resist the temptation of a STRIPPER FRIEND , I'd think he'd be pretty much immune to any sort of future temptation won't you say lol
simply saving myself from headaches and heartaches. I have read cases in google where women have been complaining about this so much. So i think to play it safe, better cut him off at first instance. by the way why would someone decent background would even talk to such individuals and be friendly with them.
Wouldn't someone who haven't been desensitized against it be even more vulnerable to advances made by strippers or pornstars or people who does it professionally?
Anyway , just dropping my two cents in.
Just curious. Do you feel threatened by his stripper friend? As in she is capable to stealing him away from you even when his heart belongs to you?
Your more significant worry should be disease. All strippers hook and most are on drugs. Your risk of HIV is very high.
He hang anything wrong yet. But let him know your displeasure and hopefully he doesn't do anything wrong.
Ya, it really does say a lot about you. It says that you overreact and are judgmental.
A female friend of mine also wants to be an exotic dancer. No sexual attraction involved. It's just a job.
It stands to reason that your boyfriend is a man-whore.
It would be a shallow reason to
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