Was he flirting?

[Anonymous]

A masseuse really did a good job and he made intense eye contact after. Anyways when he left so that I could dress he knocked and came in a bit sooner then he usually does and said 'decent enough?' And walked in lol

And then he said would I like to book another one now with the most focused eye contact like he wouldn't take his eyes off me or am I reading into it

[provokeesmokee]

You're reading into it.

Though if you're uncomfortable about him entering too quickly, talk to him and ask he wait for you to maybe open the door when you're ready instead.

No question was different than usual and "intensity" can be anything. Maybe his last client upset him and he still was cooling off. There's a lot of reasons, not just interest, for intensity.

Especially if you've been going to him and are a regular, it's normal to develop a more casual relationship.

But don't forget. He's working and you're a client. Unless this is a happy ending parlour, don't get sexual unless you want a ban.

[Asker]

I know that. I would never say or do anything of that natural. But what are the rules in these kinds of things. Can he ask me out, outside of this? Or is there a line we can't cross

[Asker]

He's not a doctor or anything just a sports therapist

[Dysney1023]

I’m gonna go against most of these comments and tell you to go with what your intuition is telling you. If you can remove any feeling from this situation, did he really just want you to book again? Or was there more? You would feel it in your gut not in your head. If it feels like he did he may hint a bit more next time. However if not then I’d say he is just doing his job. A man is usually eager to pursue a woman he likes. It may feel like a bummer to hear that but if you do that excersize I mentioned, it will tell you. I hope this helped. You would know better than all of us.

[magiusX26]

the "decent enough" part was a way to say you were dressed enough for his enteting the room to try booking another session (his job/how he makes money) and it not ve misconstrued as flirting. saddly you took his way of not flirting and are trying to make it fit the mold of flirting.

[HaveNoName]

If a male masseuse works on an average looking young lady and claims "it is only my job, I am professional" , and does not get ANY pleasure out of it, he is a fucking liar or a homo. There is no 3rd. way about it. Please... Listen to your brain.

[AviatorTom]

He recognized you as a good customer, wants to make sure you book again with him. It's part of his job. If he was flirting, you'll find that out at your next massage with him. But don't get your hopes up. He probably does the same thing for most of his female customers.

[DenizLikesTennis]

No, not at all. He wasn't flirting with you. But to make sure (that you perhaps were hoping for), book another session with him and see where it goes. Then have a small conversation for a while.

[Asker]

What about the 'decent enough'

[Asker]

I said yeah I'm just putting my shoes on, he looked at me and said decent enough

[DenizLikesTennis]

Give it another try and book another session

[Anonymous]

It might be flirting, the eye contact

decent enough sounds like a hint like he's ok with you dressed "just enough"

Whats enough for him? Well what's enough for you to let him see? See how that's kinda flirty?

Did you feel any sexual tension during the massage? That's a strong indicator if he's attracted

[SnowedIn]

I think you're way overthinking this. You saw what you wanted to see. He's keeping business is what he's doing.

[Jazzy54]

If you weren’t fully dressed, you could’ve politely told him that you weren’t fully clothed yet.

[Asker]

I said yeah I'm just putting my shoes on, he looked at me and said decent enough

[Paul09]

First I'm surprised you choose a man. Usually women get scatec and only choose a woman to massage them. I think may be overthinking this one. He just might stars more than others lol

[Wise4myage]

The intense eye contact can be considered flirting.

[Asker]

What about the 'decent enough'

[Wise4myage]

Maybe.

[shades777]

as long as your spendings money, its tgeir job to make you comfortable

[lightbulb27]

probably.

[Fuentes]

Maybe he's just about his money

[Asker]

What about the 'decent enough'

[Fuentes]

It means are u dressed?

[In_Trance]

I think you're reading into it

[BLP11520]

Flirting or something similar

[Asker]

What makes you say that

[Alex8736]

He is looking to build up his clientele

[Anonymous]

if he likes you, he would ask for your number

[Asker]

He has my number lol. But can a sports therapist ask someone out?

[elizamichale1]

I dont think so