I am a housekeeper (summer side job) at a Yaht club and ofc I check everything to make sure it’s clean and filled.
I check the gym room and sometimes there is a personal trainer on duty. I don’t see him often. Sometimes when I pass by he looks.
I went to collect some trash that was getting full. He was training someone and talking with him. While I was getting the trash he was looking and said “thank you for doing that for us”
he was looking and he had a smile. He could just be friendly.
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What are you interested in with him?
He is showing positive attention to you, but he might be acting careful with flirting so you don't freak out
No, I don’t really see him often so he may just be nice.
I think he is nice looking but I don’t want to get the wrong idea.
Is he around your age? Do you see him as someone you want to date or would you even be cool with something casual?
I’m 25 almost 26… he looks like he’s in his early or mid 30s.
I don't know how he is so I don't know yet. I don't know if he’s married or not to know what I want.
Maybe he just trying to get more clients bc I am thick I don't know
Well you're the perfect age for him, and he's giving you good signs, you could try to initiate by smiling a lot at him and using your eyes to talk, when a woman flirts with her eyes it really triggers something in a man
I don't think that's it, a lot of muscular guys LOVE thick women, I lift weights and think thick women are hot, I definitely think you can at the very least hookup with him
Lol the funny part is he’s no where near muscular. He’s slim.
Hmm I don't think you should be embarrassed about your body, I'm certain it would attract almost any guy, if you want you can describe what you look like, and I'll tell you what a guy might think
Oh nvm, he’s married. :(
That sucks! But don't let that hold you back from getting a man, a big secret is once we get into our late 20s and up we LOVE thickness!!! For dating or casual
Lol yeah. I’m not having any luck with guys. I feel like the guys who are really nice and (good looking) are usually taken. He was in fact just being nice. He could have been a bit flirty but it wasn’t harmful.
He’s actually engaged to be married.
Oh man if I knew you I'd be setting you up with friends I know!! You definitely wouldn't be worried about guys anymore
That sucks that this didn't work out :(
Yeah, but oh well.
Make a dating profile and try that, there has to be men in your area who'd love to take you out for a nice date
I tried that. It just didn’t work out
What about going to a club and talking to dudes there?
I don't know, I kind of give up. Lol
I got hurt by someone I was talking to online. Deeply hurt and I’m trying to fill this void but I do want to be with someone.
I’ve never had a boyfriend before. Never been out on a real date.
Oh man that's not good, you sound really sweet and I like thick, if I lived near you I'd take you out for a really fancy date tonight! Dinner and then drinks so I can show off my date to the world