Do other guys get speratic violent urges?

[errornotfound]

I know this is kind of weird, but sometimes I really just want to fight somebody, I mean, I seek out people and ask them to attack me because I want hand-to-hand combat. I took Korean Tai-Kwon-Do for multiple years, and I really enjoyed sparring, I sometimes just get sudden rushes of adrenaline out of nowhere, and I just want to fight someone. Does this happen to anyone else?

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Considering that this seems to be a thing only I do, is there something wrong with me in the head?

[Jo-hello]

You may need to redirect that energy into something more positive.. one time my husband got so mad at me.. but he managed to build a whole room of shelves and storage space with that energy in our furnace room. You may need to find a passion project to keep you busy and call a therapist just to work through why this happens and how you can learn to manage it.. especially before you get in a relationship where emotions heighten more. My dad used to say - go kick some sagebrush, till you wear yourself out.. redirect.. wear yourself out doing something productive.. if around other people, and your triggered.. excuse yourself and go for a run or walk.. you may get in trouble or just spar a little too hard on the other guy.

[errornotfound]

Thanks, that's good advice. I'll try it.😁

[_Maya_]

I don't know about guys but I certainly don't. That really does sound like a guy thing though. I have never been in a physical fight and don't intend to be. My strategy is to avoid confrontation and walk away. Must be the testosterone or something lolz. Can't you just go spar with somoene regularly to avoid getting in fights?

[errornotfound]

I actually haven't gotten into a lot of fights, and unfortunately, I quit martial arts. I usually do a lot to control myself but it is really weird. My forearms look veiny because of all of the blood rushing through my body.

[Travi186]

Umm noo I would recommend keeping that under control or your asking to be in a more serious situation than what you planned. I took martial arts as well for a while but I never got the urge to go out and seek violence. Its best to learn how to defend yourself if de-escalation is off the table.


I've been in fights as well… they’re not fun, I don’t enjoy it and prefer to keep to myself. It hurts and it sucks in the end. All it takes is for it to go left and end badly. Pass

[errornotfound]

I can respect that, I do a lot of self-control, because I know that I could seriously injure someone or worse if I got into a fight. I admire you for being able to control yourself and walk away. However I am rather rash and blunt at times to say the least, and it could result into me getting into a fight, sure, I have gotten into fights before, but never to the point of physical combat.

[Billlewis]

If I may ask, are your violent fantasies accompanied by sexual encounters when you're dreaming about beating another guy's ass? Because there are many women who are tremendously aroused by watching the guy they're dating fight another guy and beating his ass. Perhaps you can parlay your kinky fantasies into some enjoyable relationships with women.

[errornotfound]

It has nothing to do with sexual encounters. There is no relation to any sort of kinky shit, I just like fighting/sparring with other people.🤷

[devilish-cutie]

I know some guy that are not mean or beat but like to beat...

[devilish-cutie]

If it counts for anything i do as a female get agressive urges, i think its cause im tempermental, but i dont seek physical fights

[BarryLiverstone]

I feel aggressive at times but don’t want to hurt others.

[errornotfound]

I guess I could say that too. Its just that I'm usually around other people when this happens, so it leads to that urge to fight.

[BarryLiverstone]

And that’s when you should take a step back and understand why you feel aggressive and choose to cope in another way. Unfortunately In the past I lost control and hurt others so had to learn

[Tomisworthless]

Seems like a mental issue or lack of emotional control

[AngryCarl2]

Not since I stopped taking statins.

[heavymetalbrotha]

Hell yeah after a good work out.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is why thugs rob liquor stores.

[In_Trance]

I don't